"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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Before I got to these forums, I was trying tog et a hb 9.5, I used to see her around lunch , we had some eye contact , I always thought she was feelin me. Then I had a class with her and asked her out , but she was talkin to someone (i know that is what ****ed it up now). Well anyways , I do notice her trying to get my attention sometimes , and one of her ways was , I was up at the front of our class , and she was talkin to her friends , and she was talkin about some cheerleader bending over , and she bent over right infront of me , pointing her ass at me , and pointing at spots on her ass , the first time she did it , I walked away and showed no interest (I was looking for one of my papers at the front of the class) , then I went back to the front , and she started doing it again. If I could go back , I woulda been ****y and funny and followed up with some kino (something like , you got a nice ass, i bet mines sexier and try to escalate her to smack my ass if I can smack hers), but i didnt even know what kino meant back then , nor knowing about ****y and funny. Well, Ive basically been ignoring her and trying to show no interest in her , she told my ex that i stare at her all the time , and Im usually sleeping in that class , I wrote her a letter saying shes a ****in lie , it was the first letter she responded to so quickly and willingly. Well , any advice on where to go next? Shes currently goin out with someone thats kind of my friend or atleast talkin to him.

oh yea , I forgot to add that she has two girlfriends that sit infront of me , and three guys that I know by looks im better , but they are total ****blocks , so I just pass her off in that class sometimes.
 

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Originally posted by Mctwist4
Sounds like an AW to me. Stop being so dramatic. Never ever write a letter to someone saying they are a lier or anything else for that matter. It says to her that you care so much what she says about you. Forget about her.
Ive already forgot about her , I just dont want her telling her friends that kind of **** , I didnt hear that from my ex , but she told my ex and a chick i was hitting on the day before that(H). I didnt even know H knew my ex , I come to find out H is good friends with my ex. And I dont want some stupid ***** goin around telling all the other girls H, my ex , and whoever else was there, that im staring at her and always trying to get her attention , etc. Makes me look desperate. H told me what HB9.5 said the next day.
 
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