What happens if she doesn't look at you or return your look?

[Ben MacDui]

Hi, one area that I feel that seduction theories are weak on, and that affects my game massively, is what happens if you can't get women to return a look at you and express any (even remote) interest before you approach them.

Although I do make an effort to look vaguely stylish, and have done much in terms of losing weight and looking more physically attractive, the number of women that will look at me or return my look at them I can count one one hand in a year (and I go out a few times per week). Therefore, I am never sure to approach them or not.

I have heard different schools of thought on the subject. Some pickup gurus suggest forgetting about it and approaching them anyway. Others suggest that my physical looks and style are at fault (for example, the Player Supreme in one of his seduction podcasts suggests that one needs to get really ripped and muscular, and wear Armani suits to get woman interested).

It would be good to hear the view of others on the subject.

 

[ready123]

figure out what works for you based on experience. you should be trying to confirm or dispute the sht you read here when you go out. you'll find most of the pick-up info you'll come across is posted out of context or straight up wrong

and yeah you should be approaching regardless of where she's looking. looks don't matter

 

[Sir I]

your thinking to much, do what ever you want without hesitation, and yes pay attention to your clothing and physical appereance but never forget that your mentality expresses in the way you dress and look. it goes hand in hand.

but more importantly just go for it