"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what happen to boot camp?
- Thread starter david90
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ojete
Don Juan
My bootcamp was a bit modified because i was in a LTR and couldn't handle the last weeks, however i would give a try to it again now that i'm ltr free
. It helped me a lot to get confortable approaching all kind of people and improving my eye contact.You can read Walden's famous journal about his bootcamp here:
Walden - Boot Camp Journal
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
The only real way to know if it works is to do it yourself... so, kick up your skirt, grab your balls and go out and meet some ladies.