"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what girls like in guys???

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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attitude
 

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that is not a simple question, you need to read the qucik tips on this website, altohugh there not so quick as it would probablt take up the whole day reading them all.

Girls are looking for the alpha male, you must be confident and never ler any one walk all over you, including girls. Do not seme desprate for them. They like people thta are fun and that they can have a good time with, and a guy that has ****y tendincies, but don't push it too much here.

I have bairly scratched the surface here, if you want a proper answer you need to look at the quick tips on the website and then if you have any questions after that, ask in the forum.
 

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You can't generalise mate. Different girls like different men. Sure there are qualities that all want, but there is not one man that every girl wants. Cept me.
 

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Girls like guys like me.

As close as you can get to me will bring you that much closer to her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Shiraz
what do girls like to see in guys:

what makes them more attractive.... thanks
Everything exemplified in the DJ bible is what girls are attracted to.

Read it, and you too will know.
 

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Slightly less vague question

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF LIFE????/ ADVICE PLS
 

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Re: Slightly less vague question

Originally posted by blienk
WHAT IS THE MEANING OF LIFE????/ ADVICE PLS
42
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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erm......i got the answer to that question of a girl MATE. I didnt ask her it she just got mixed up.

cant remember what i was saying i was proberly wasted but dug that out of some logs.

"wen he can b yur best girl m8 as well (like u cn go 2 im 4 advice n stuff). he can make u laf so much u roll about in tears n then the next minute he'll b dead serious n knows wen 2 stop goofin. u can do nuthin wiv im n still never get bored. u no u can always blieve im cos he'll b straight wiv u...

oh yeah plus he needs 2 smell sexy and a gud kiss is never a bad thing"

Dont think its gonna get them to fancy you though.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Slightly less vague question

Originally posted by jason86
whats '42'?
Read the Hitchhikers guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams. Funniest book of all time, you'll understand after that...
 
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