What gets you the girls is "confidence"

[devilkingx2]

Also, a woman cannot understand or appreciate how a man can be afraid of a woman. Women actually have legitimate reasons to be afraid of men, even with the protections that society gives them. Yet they go out there every day and do their thing. How can they respect a guy who is afraid of women?

women don't have any reason to be afraid of men, but many women actually do act as if they live their lives in fear like every dude on the street is a psycho rapist or something.

 

[Who Dares Win]

NO. I believe you will LEARN much faster and gain the aptitude to fly the plane twice or even more faster than someone without the confidence.



Esteem and confidence can be IMPROVED dramatically by removing negative self talk and doubt. So no you can't tell them to just gain it, but it can be gained and there is a huge difference in one who is confidence vs one who is not.



You have every reason to believe in yourself. That's what self esteem is. You have every reason to treat yourself well and ensure that others especially do. You have every reason to not be manipulated behind sex.



Competence in a field is competence. Confidence is basically self esteem. We can tell someone that their self-esteem is too low, that they are cheating themselves. That they keep focusing on the negatives. That they treat themselves poorly. That they let females drag them down...



Self-esteem. All I'm saying is confidence or self esteem makes a HUGE difference, and like anything else it can be IMPROVED.

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I understand your point and altough I partially agree with what you say especially when it comes of the right attitude, I would draw a much stricter line in terms of outcome.