"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What drinks u recomend??

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cognac. Very classy. Remy Martin, Hennessy, Martel, Napoleon, or even Courvoissier. Most of this doesn't come cheap, though. Be ready to shell out a few $. Especially the Napoleon.
 

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Chances are your date isn't gonna want something heavy, but rather fruity. There are some easy drinks to make that taste great.

1/2 Bacardi Razz
1/2 Orange Soda

This drink may sound odd, but you cant even taste the liqour.

You can also do

1/4 Bacardi Razz
1/2 Lemonade
1/4 Sprite

This drink also uses Razz, and makes a rasberry lemonade.

These are easy drinks to make, and are fruity. I would personally make the first one though, because you seriously can't taste and alcohol.
 

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cheap ass beer that will get u fuct - icehouse, keystone ice, nat

maddog 20/20 - three bux for a pint and it gets u fuct
wild irish rose - wine that is 18 percent alcohol and its $2.75 for a fifth of it. cheapest drunk possible, besides generic vodka
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if you are not a heavy drinker, stay away from the vodka's and rum's, or you'll be fvcked up seriously.

I would recommend Sminoff's or jack daniel's or someth ing along thoose lines.

If you are a casual drinker and can handle a drink or to, try one of my personal fav's, a red death. it's the strongest thing I have ever had, and tasts like fruit juice.
 

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my favourite drink has to be red bull + vodka. i'ts a nice combination of getting wired (red bull) and loose (alcohol)
I heard that this combination does damage to a persons heart. I wouldnt mix the two.

Personally i drink new castle beers...you def. should have them sometime. If you have like 6 you'll have a nice buzz
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Beer. Try something thats 4% rather than 5.5% if you don't want to get wasted.

Alcopops etc are a "girly drink" that I wouldn't be seen dead drinking.
 
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Originally posted by DrMetallica
Everclear. It's pretty smooth going down and it will do the job. It's also fun to chug. ;)
this is your best bet:D
 
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