"what does this have to do with seduction?"

[ethnomethodologist]

Alright, I can't hold back any longer...

This thread is going to be a reminder to the seduction community.

There are areas of seduction and attraction that are being ignored. There are areas of peoples lives that are being neglected. Learning attitudes are being neglected.

People in general seek the easiest way out. They desire the need to be free, to be at ease. They want to be safe, and not sorry. They run from pain.

There are so many sayings to confirm this fact that are mainstream. Too bad I am not somebody who likes to walk around spitting quotes and reading from the bible to teach people lessons. One of the greatest inventors in the world argued for the need for society to accept humility. To accept that there are problems, to not deny their existence. Another inventor argued that "necessity is the mother of invention".

I wish I was mainstream, I wish I conformed, I wish I was like everybody else... that is the underlying message I try to set across. The difference is that across cultural boundaries, desires and pain are not transferred, well the desire to be compassionate of the problem is not. The need to solve problems is concurrent across all cultures, even a child must learn to communicate pain.

Everybody has "behavioral characteristics" everybody also has "potential talents" and "personal styles". Thing is though, there is no method to share these traits.

What are the most difficult to trade traits? There are some things you can't write down for somebody and make them go... "hey, that's right." That is a common misconception. Another misconception is the argument that there are people who do MORE harm than good. "It's impossible"

I can swear on my above statements. There are many people on this site who have "turned a new leaf" they've learned what was previously unthinkable. The prime example is "****y and funny", another is confidence, another is "being an *******".

Comedy is a trait that is learned.
Speech is a trait that is learned.
Dance is a trait that is learned.
Music is a trait that is learned.
Reading is a trait that is learned.
Writing is a trait that is learned.
Attention is a trait that is learned.

These are all behaviours. There are different behaviors in each society, in each family, in each social group...

What is the new theory going around today in seduction? Ah, yes, awareness radius, the concept of high/low value derived from attention levels. This theory helps describes my dilemna, my issue, my 'problem'. It asks what basic traits are admirable and draw attention, and which are ignored...

This thread is my call for requests. Call to know what a certain habit can be used for in seduction. Which secular, social, or cultural attributes are beneficial to people...

What kinds of characteristics are the most interesting? How can they be practiced? Why are unethical practices so appealing?

I want questions!!!!

 

[spitkicker]

I'm not sure if this answers your question, but look at game as marketing. It's not necisarily the talents you have, but in how you market them. You have to "package" yourself to make the REAL you look appealing. So instead of taking up hobbies to impress, work on conveying your identity. Mystery for example really conveys his Magic identity. It is so strong that everyone around him almost gets sucked into it. Juggler on the other hand, does not run around doing magic tricks, he has his completely unique style. THe similarity is in that they both understand their personal identities and are able to convey them congruently.

is this what you were looking for?

 

[Sapiens]

Why are unethical practices so appealing?

Because they seem to be profitable in some way or another, when in effect they are not once you look at the big picture.

I got a question for you, why aren't you out there sargin?

-Sapiens

 

[ethnomethodologist]

You'd be disgusted with how much sargin' I do

No, really, I'm on call, the only cell tower in town is on the fritz, and I'm the only dispatcher in town at the moment.
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Nice take on unethical practices. Some people need it though to know why people are unethical. They can't see the big picture if their lives are embroiled with unintentional pain.

So, why do people lie?...

 

[ethnomethodologist]

At a young age women love jerks, but when they get older the jerk gets rejected by society.

What is it that the jerk conveys that a confident, successful, desirable, exciting, dangerous, daring man does not?
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If competition is an admiral quality, and being aggressive is being bold and assertive...

Why is it that there are people who have a desire to help?

If men are naturally agressive, why are they also naturally supportive, why do they even care about protecting their tribe?

How does a tribal leader come into power?