"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do you think of porn?

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Aldous Huxley's 'Brave New World' pretty much got it right. A consumerist dystopia where the citizens enjoy recreational sex and the drug of Soma. Yet we have gone one step further in combining these two pastimes in the delivery of high speed pornography at the click of a button. This community is probably a bit of a niche one... the exception to the norm. I'd say western 'post-developed' societies are going the way of Japan, where half the population in their thirties are sexless:


The way I understand it is that we have seen the collapse of a 'romantic culture'. It is now dead and dissected - on the one hand you have a very rational view of the world, which scoffs at romance, and on the other a very biological, dare I say, a bestial one. Our personalities have been dichotomized, and our bodies alienated from our minds. Romance served to combine the two. And romance transcended the relation between the sexes... it was near something of a worldview.

Sex stripped of romance is really just bestiality, and this is what pornography is all about.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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