"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do you think of girls who kick it with a lot of guys?

chancer

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One girl, who had a lot of dude friends, was cool and all, but was a big tease. So obviously they like a lot of attention. Well... I met another one... She might know bits and pieces of how we (men) spit game, so I'm feeling like I cant **** up, by bull****ing or fronting. I'm going to have to be genuine with this girl if anything. Whenever I talk to her, I just let her say whatever she wants and when I do talk to her, i try not to bull**** or front. Anyway, What do you think of girls who kick it with a lot of guys? What are some of your experiences?
 

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Hors!!!
 

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Just talk to her.. its like us having a lot of girl friends...
 

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She is a He. That's what i think.


Be friend the guys if you want the girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"*****s or Tomboys?" You guys have got it all wrong. Women like this want a lot of "male friends" around, because they hate hangin' out with other women, too much competiton, and too "catty"...They also LOVVE male attention, even though they is not putting out.
 

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That's the thing with my new girl, I think ALL of her friends are guys. I think this is because she moved here from another country knowing nobody, and only guys have approached her. Now they've all been slotted firmly in the LJBF category. I know they would fu*ck her, given the chance. But she's just not interested. Don't think they like me much :rolleyes:

Now that I think about it, most of the hot girls I know have their own little army of AFC friends. These girls know that the guys want to f*uck them, but in their eyes they have done nothing wrong. And let's face it: they haven't really. If the guy wants to hang around hoping for a scrap of attention then it's his problem.

If I hang about with a hot girl, I am either pursuing them, screwing them, have already screwed them, not interested in screwing them, or they're lesbian :D
 

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A girl that rolls with a lot of guys usually has attention issues and dating issues.

Bad, bad news unless you like an insane challenge.
 

TedJustAdmitIt

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Hellboy

ALL of her friends are blokes?

How long has she been in the country?
Can she not approach other women with the aim of striking up a friendship?
How bout the peeps she works with?

I know and have known plenty of ladies who don't(won't?)mix with their own gender and they basically fall into 2 types...

1)They are your classic AW and don't like the competition that other females represent

2)They just can't stand other women!

Let's face it,there are some real cows out there and we all know how fuking bit*hy women can be,I'm not sure I'd have many female friends if I was a woman:eek:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chancer

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Its pretty simple... I want to have fun, and if she wants to have fun, then it's on.

I'll give her a call soon and see if I can get something going. But I've got my own boys, I don't need to get to know hers. And forget all of that LJBF bull****, lol. Like Hellboy said, "If I hang about with a hot girl, I am either pursuing them, screwing them, have already screwed them, not interested in screwing them, or they're lesbian" :)

Anyway, thanks for all of the input.
 

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You should never front or bullsh1t anyway as most women see through it eventually. Being genuine is always the best way to go.

But I prefer to keep women who crave attention from lots of guys at a distance.
 

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Re: Hellboy

Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
ALL of her friends are blokes?

How long has she been in the country?
Can she not approach other women with the aim of striking up a friendship?
How bout the peeps she works with?

I know and have known plenty of ladies who don't(won't?)mix with their own gender and they basically fall into 2 types...

1)They are your classic AW and don't like the competition that other females represent

2)They just can't stand other women!

Let's face it,there are some real cows out there and we all know how fuking bit*hy women can be,I'm not sure I'd have many female friends if I was a woman:eek:
LOL
Since I wrote that she has introduced me to one female friend, and she gets on with the girls I've introduced her to. Her flatmate is a girl, and she has 2 female best friends back in Greece.

So maybe I spoke a bit harshly. But it doesn't change the fact that there are an army of male friends who would probably quite like a pop. But she's mine :D
 

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low self-esteem
 

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Originally posted by Juan_Man
low self-esteem
Definately a strong possibility.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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