Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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datkid55

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So there's this girl im talking to she's not relationship material but she is still chill regardless. Anyway so I have hooked up and had sex with her months ago but that seems irrelevant rn. So we stopped talking for a bit and then started talking again a month ago. So anyway I chilled with her a week and a half ago with the intention of banging but she seemed tiredo so I didn't really try to escalate so we just talked. The day after she text me to see what im doing but I'm busy so I end the convo. 2 days later I hit her up to see if she's going out and it turns out she went back home for a few days so I tell her to hit me up when shes back. Then 4 days later she texts me at 3 am obviously looking to bang but I was a sleep so I k didn't go. 3 days go by and I hit her up to see if she's going out to which she say she's not sure and then tells me she'll let me know if she does and that to let me know if the bar is any good. I never end up going out so I never bothered texting her. Anyway the following day she hit me up to smoke at her new place later that night to which I agreed to. She seemed really exciTed in her text so I thought that I was in. Anyway I hit her up after i get out of work and she apologizes saying she had to help her roommate with something and that she's not at home. To this I say I'll be chilling in her area so if she's still trying to chill to hit me up. She then says for me to find cigarettes to which I jokingly reply that's her job bc she's so good at finding them to which she said haha true. I end the convo here and she never texted me back that night. We both text each other equally and she does does initiate i just dont want to get strung along with her. Tbh Im sure she's talking to other guys. So I can't really tell if she's being genuine with me or not i kind of think she may be but im not sure? What do u guys think?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Doesnt matter what she is just is you just need to put your bid in. Set up another time on your terms and give her the opportunity to prove shes reliable. In China we call it KAO PU, if the ho aint KAO PU then don't waste your time.
 

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Yeah Im debating on either going totally no contact until she eventually hits me up and play it off like I was busy or waiting a few days before hitting her up to hangout. What do u guys think would be the best way going about it?
 

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Just put the ball in her court and keep her on the backburner. No need to do anything at this point. Send her a text in a few weeks like "I have time tonight at 10, come on over and lets watch a cool movie (Das Boot or something that she will not enjoy to enable her mind to wander...) If shes quality she'll make that happen, if shes smitten she'll show up drunk one night ready to go, if not then just demote her to a non plate.
 

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Okay yeah so I'm gonna lay off her a bit like 2 weeks before asking her to hangout again. Shell most likely initI ate with me if a wait a while so if she does I'll hangout with her. Only thing is is that I live 25 minutes away and she doesn't have a car so I really don't have the option of inviting her over I'm only really limited to her l place or when I go out by her so it's hard to hangout with just her. What would I do about that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This whole thing is probably sunk in the water but lets say somehow, some way things get popping again -- You said she doesn't have a car but the key really is do you have a car? Drive her somewhere with a nice view, show her Jupiter then show her the bone brah.
 
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