What do you guys think?

[demonzarathos]

Hey guys this would be my first post here.
I've been lurking here for a couple of months learning stuff here and there.
And I just decided to join in on the fun. hehe. I've read the DJ bible and the book of Pook as well so I've done a few improvements in my part but sometimes my little AFCness tends to creep out of me so I kinda need a little help here. Sometimes I tend to look at things with AFC eyes so I'm asking if some of would you give me a little kick in the ass and point me in the right direction when I'm confused.

Here's my situation:

I've been dating this girl for a while. I've been pretty much happy with what's going on with us until lately. I'm at work so I don't give her all my time. I have enough time with my band, my friends and for myself as well. It was all good until recently. She says that she doesn't want to sleep around anymore. She says she's feeling guilty because of her faith and that she's a hypocrite because she's a youth leader (from some kind of youth camp in church or something). Now she wants to wait around til marriage day. Now something inside me wants to NEXT her. What do you think? or is this kind of a sh*t test or something? I could really use a little help disarming women when they say something like this. Thanks!

 

[King Turi]

Tell her you'll find some pvssy elsewhere then.

 

[Randallpink83]

I'm assuming you both are older (like 21+ atleast?), and she is starting to think of that settling down age. Especially since she is active in a religion. Religions put way more pressure on girls to "do the right thing"... And the right thing that they BRAINWASH is to get married, stay perfectly morally clean, raise children... blahhh...

anyhow, its simple... You know WHY she is laying down this law. Cause of her belief system and principles. This is all in her head and her own self-guilt she is dealing with.

If you wanna stay with her and keep fvcking her, don't give this (the abstinence thing) any power. Instead tell her you understand where she is coming from and tell her you really respect her "mature views". back her up... Side with her. Make her feel great about herself again... But still be a man and take what you want... Don't ever tell her you wanna fvck her, physically just show it. Watch and see, within a very short time and a few hot and heavy makeout sessions later, you are going to be winning that pvssy again!
This is not deceiving her. Shes just confused... Lead her. Be the type of man that all women want and willingly spread their legs for.

Or, and this is what I strongly suggest. Break it off clean and never look back... You have an opportunity here. You have found the "community". You now have a chance to become one of the 10% men who are fvcking 90% of the women. You have a chance to become the FULL MAN you were born to be. and ultimately you will earn the right to screen through hundreds of women til you can pick the absolute top notch woman that you deserve, someone that is inline with your goals, lifestyle and dreams. And someone that is far more attractive than probably any girl you have had yet....

The first road is easy, and mediocre... The second road is hard, fulfilling, exciting and completely worth it. Its your choice.

Good luck friend.

 

[Captain]

Good to see sosuave has helped you

I don't give her all my time.

This is good. Keeps her wanting to see you and on her toes.

She says that she doesn't want to sleep around anymore ...... Now she wants to wait around til marriage day.

Bad luck. I avoid religious women. That said, they still want sex, they just repress it with religion. You need to build up her attraction as high as possible, lots of push-pull.

You want to have sex with her? Get her over your place. Kiss her all over. Lots of push-pull here. Lots of foreplay, get her warmed up, and get her wanting more.

I can't give you much more here, since I don't know how old you are or how much you've done together up to this point.

Now something inside me wants to NEXT her.

Yes, go and date other women. Keep this one on the side, build her attraction up.

 

[demonzarathos]

Randallpink83 - Thanks for laying it out on me. I've actually thought of the first option you mentioned before I wrote here. But I also had thoughts of breaking it off clean as well. I'll give some more thoughts into this. Anyways I don't want this to take a lot my time. So I really appreciate the help.

Captain - Yeah! I know what you mean about religious women! But I stay in the Philippines so most women here are pretty f--kin religious! hahaha it is kind of rare to find a lady who would set her religions aside for a guy.
Yeah, weird thing is this is the second time this subject came up between us. It really sucks cause when everything's staying cool she brings this up. I thought I was able to settle the first time this happened but her religiousness sneaked its way back again and she's saying she's even more guilty this time. We've been rocking the bed for about three months now. I'm 20 she's 22.

 

[Randallpink83]

Randallpink83 - Thanks for laying it out on me. I've actually thought of the first option you mentioned before I wrote here. But I also had thoughts of breaking it off clean as well. I'll give some more thoughts into this. Anyways I don't want this to take a lot my time. So I really appreciate the help.

Captain - Yeah! I know what you mean about religious women! But I stay in the Philippines so most women here are pretty f--kin religious! hahaha it is kind of rare to find a lady who would set her religions aside for a guy.
Yeah, weird thing is this is the second time this subject came up between us. It really sucks cause when everything's staying cool she brings this up. I thought I was able to settle the first time this happened but her religiousness sneaked its way back again and she's saying she's even more guilty this time. We've been rocking the bed for about three months now. I'm 20 she's 22.

I've had experience with a girl from the phillipines before. Even though she wasn't religious, her upbringing and morals definitely put a lot of pressure on her aswell. I think it just goes with that culture right?? maybe it was religion and I didn't even notice it.
Anyhow, yeah, I was thinking this when I responded earlier, but didnt say it. Even if you do smooth it over and stay with her, this subject will keep popping up. Thats why its best to just move on... As you said, this is already the second time you've dealt with this... you want to keep dealing with this??? Second option bro, second option.

And now that I remember, I was thinking of this girl from Thailand... But I have been with a Filipina now that I think about it, she was not very moral though, lol.

 

[demonzarathos]

Thanks Randallpink83, the deed is finally done. I've taken the hard road. Damn, it stings right through my chest... part of me really wants to keep her. Even though we had like a few months dating I invested a part of me during the time so I can still feel the aftershock from last night. Thanks a lot for the advices guys. I've got tons of stuff to do so I"ll be seeing ya! I'll be reading around here still and I'll post if anything interesting comes up.