What do you guys think of this?

[qazwsx19]

Ok me and my girl have been going out for like 13 months , i love her very much and shes everything ive ever wanted . We was talking the other day and she told me that she would like if i was more cleverer and could talk about history and and loads of inteligent things , she says she wants somone she can keep up with and challenge her on certain subjects , she is the smartest girl in her school and got the highest grade , she then said that these things are not very important but its just somthing she likes ..but its not a must have ..she is starting university soon and wants to concentrate at uni so she said she might need to spend a little less time together , but she is scared our relationship will be affected . But what do yu think?

i told her i am not going to turn into a nerd , i will try and read a bit more but im not changing who i am . Btw im not some really dumb person i will be going uni soon .im just not that nerdy of a person.

what do your guys think

 

[frivolousz21]

let it RIDE and have fun...

you are to young to worry about this shyt.

with all do repsect..the odds of your relationship lasting threw all this is slim.


but it can be done...just have fun..dont change who you are.

 

[qazwsx19]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
let it RIDE and have fun...

you are to young to worry about this shyt.

with all do repsect..the odds of your relationship lasting threw all this is slim.


but it can be done...just have fun..dont change who you are.

can i ask why u think the odds are slim of our relationship lasting?

 

[squirrels]

I see clouds on the horizon.

What does that mean? That depends on a lot of things.

 

[frivolousz21]

becasue you are young...

going to diff schools...

which means ur what 17 or 18?


the change between 18 and 22..its HUGE..probably the biggest change you will make...and you dont know where that will lead you to.

thats why you need to just have fun with it..I mean love your girl....and be her man...but things always seeem to be complicated threw college....except for a few relationships

 

[Muppet]

Talk to her about stuff she doesnt know and you do, has to be something, cars, trucks, bikes, computers. Men stuff.

Or if she wants a deep conversation maybe review a movie together.

 

[qazwsx19]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
becasue you are young...

going to diff schools...

which means ur what 17 or 18?


the change between 18 and 22..its HUGE..probably the biggest change you will make...and you dont know where that will lead you to.

thats why you need to just have fun with it..I mean love your girl....and be her man...but things always seeem to be complicated threw college....except for a few relationships

yeah i see what your saying im actually 21 yrs old and she is a couple years younger then me . But the thing that makes me not doubt our realtionship is because she is different from other girls , se not wild ...dosnt smoke drink.....dosnt really like parties ...and i respect her for this ...she wants to have a family wwith me one day . she is really understanding .I do get a lil worride that i can't meet her needs

 

[qazwsx19]

Originally posted by Muppet
Talk to her about stuff she doesnt know and you do, has to be something, cars, trucks, bikes, computers. Men stuff.

Or if she wants a deep conversation maybe review a movie together.

review a movie together , what does that involve doing

 

[ARK]

Dont ever change who you are. If you do you wont be happy with yourself which means you wont be happy in all aspects of your life. She is attracted to the guy she met 13 months ago, that guy is you! Not the altered version she thinks you should be.

 

[Lost In the Seas]

you are 21?

unless you are marrying within next year, i see this relationship lasting three years max, chances are you will find someone else or she will find someone else in university

remember this: you may be commited to her forever, but you are not her, you can never be 100% sure if she will

if you dont want your heart to be shattered, best not to take this relationship seriously, be loyal, trustworthy and honest to her, but take it casually, within the next few years when your girl goes to college, expect nothing, be prepare for everything is my best advice, especially for that infamous "LJBF!" line

 

[qazwsx19]

Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
you are 21?

unless you are marrying within next year, i see this relationship lasting three years max, chances are you will find someone else or she will find someone else in university

remember this: you may be commited to her forever, but you are not her, you can never be 100% sure if she will

if you dont want your heart to be shattered, best not to take this relationship seriously, be loyal, trustworthy and honest to her, but take it casually, within the next few years when your girl goes to college, expect nothing, be prepare for everything is my best advice, especially for that infamous "LJBF!" line

thanks for the advice , whats an LJBF ?

 

[HHloser2]

"Lets just be friends"

 

[MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO]

man sounds like your being played...she wants you 2 be more intelligence, read more? what does that have 2 do with anything, just give her a challenge, show her that theres are more important things in life than persuein her n tryin 2 satisfiyin her(it should be the other way around) pretend ur busy go play golf with ur buddies or somthing next time she call u pretend ur in the middle of somthing important show her ur a busy guy and every moment she have with u should be important and cherishd.

 

[libre]

Dear Qw7?%&*alphabet

Well, hold true to yourself, however, do polish your english. Doing so will only augment your skills, confidence and attraction. For a university prospect, your written english is poor at best. If your girlfriend is very good at school, I would not be surprised if your written english irritates her. Myself I would find it quite irritating if my girlfriend couldn't write properly.

You don't need to compare your skills with Shakespeare, however, you should at least check your spelling and grammar.

 

[qazwsx19]

Nahh im deff not getting played . she loves me too much and we spend most of our time together for the moment , Well what does loving somone have to do with how good they are at writng english



any other advice i would like to hear from you

 

[libre]

Well, it's ok with me. As you do have a winning formula. Don't change it; you are sure to have further success'.

Sure there must be intelligent girls out there who love to be raptured by neandherthal types with a university degree.

 

[qazwsx19]

Originally posted by libre
Well, it's ok with me. As you do have a winning formula. Don't change it; you are sure to have further success'.

Sure there must be intelligent girls out there who love to be raptured by neandherthal types with a university degree.

Yeah i see what your sayin' thanks