What do you guys do

[Prodoge]

Just got back from a date with a girl i chatted up on instagram a few days ago.
It turned out that she is better looking on her pics (has visible belly, which i find super unattractive)

As i saw her i told myself that i don't really want anything to do with her any further because of that (yes i am picky).

However as i got back i already had a message from her and she sent me 4 selfies on snapchat (not the ones she sends to every one) within an hour and flooded me with texts asking random **** like how long my longest relationship lasted.

My question is what do you guys do when a women is clearly not exactly what you want but shows interest ?

If you got the opportunity to get laid with little effort would you go for it? Even if you wouldn't even want her as plate

Keep in mind i could do with some more experience.

 

[Prodoge]

Experience with desperate women is not useful experience.

Well what do you consider desperate?

 

[ubercat]

Either play it straight and go the FWB route or turn her into an orbiter LJBF.

Either way don't feel any guilt all women will step over yr dead body to get to the next guy under the right conditions.

 

[Von]

Well what do you consider desperate?

Hé consider desparate woman... the behaviour she has according to your post

Girl who show too much caring and attention and are so open to you fast.

Thèse girls make you wonder if girls have the same feeling with needy guys

You should tell her, you not interested... it will save you alot of timeand battery(for cell)

 

[CodeOfAtlas]

Experience with desperate women is not useful experience.

Experiencing one desperate woman is good, especially in OP's case where he asks for the definition of desperate. Every man should have their own well-formed idea of a desperate woman, and it will naturally become a higher standard through experience.

You should be honest with her if you want to gain experience, obviously it's up to you on how you want to phrase that to her. If you were to lie to and manipulate a "desperate woman", what does that say about your value?

 

[Jifto]

Haha, I'm kind of going through something similar man. There's a girl I'm supposed to meet up with tomorrow for the second time and I'm just not that into it.

Right now going through cycles of "But it's good experience" v. "Waste of time."

 

[Glassguy]

OP- if you had more options NOW, you wouldn't be posting this. You would simply shift your attention to the ones that you are sexually attracted to.

Tell her that you aren't looking for a serious relationship right now. Let her actions to that guide you. If she is down to just fvck and you decide you're ok with that, she becomes your bottom plate, or a plate while you find more.

If she only wants a relationship, she is cutting herself loose.

It's a win win.

 

[Roober]

From my experience, if I'm not attracted and I take her to bed, I have performance issues. Like you, I don't like women with extra weight and it's almost an immediate next for me.

 

[Trump]

My question is what do you guys do when a women is clearly not exactly what you want but shows interest ?

I would ask her "Do you have any attractive female friends for me?"

I did that a few times in my younger days. Didn't go over too well...

 

[Prodoge]

OP- if you had more options NOW, you wouldn't be posting this. You would simply shift your attention to the ones that you are sexually attracted to.

Tell her that you aren't looking for a serious relationship right now. Let her actions to that guide you. If she is down to just fvck and you decide you're ok with that, she becomes your bottom plate, or a plate while you find more.

If she only wants a relationship, she is cutting herself loose.

It's a win win.

You are so correct man, if I had better options I wouldn't even think twoce about her.

In my current situation i find it difficult to meet new girls. Either trough social circle which is limited or old which is unreliable.

And cold approach i am not comfortable with + I live in a village about 30 minutes away from the next town (I still live with my parents as student)

 

[ubercat]

Concentrate on sports studies and networking to get that first job. Woman don't build your life up you need to do that

 

[dustmuffin]

If a woman has good hygiene, is decent looking and is not a land whale I will screw her. Desperate or not. But that is how I operate. F uck them all. No regrets.

 

[Prodoge]

@dustmuffin found your toupee yet ?

Also what do you call a whale ? Because i find a women with flab belly extremely unattractive cause they are not even fat but with a little bit of effort they could have a nice body.

Even my mom at 50 has a flat belly while doing no sport appart from walking the dog.

 

[dustmuffin]

@dustmuffin found your toupee yet ?

Also what do you call a whale ? Because i find a women with flab belly extremely unattractive cause they are not even fat but with a little bit of effort they could have a nice body.

Even my mom at 50 has a flat belly while doing no sport appart from walking the dog.

I have f uck ed chubby women that were wild in the sack. Little flab on the belly is no big deal. I was very picky when I was younger. She was flat chested, big ass, stuff like that as disqualifiers. Looking back I regret it. I missed out on some easy sex. A land whale is just that. An enormous montain of flesh.

You have to have standards. But if they are too high you might miss out on some great sex. F uck them once. If it was good go back for more. If not move along. I'm not looking for a girlfriend. I want sex and entertainment.