"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"what do you do on the weekend"

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I force myself to get out on weekends otherwise I'd be either sitting at home behind the computer (of which i do a lot at work), playing guitar, reading books. If the weather is nice I go biking alone or with friends, rollerblading or simply going to the mall or eh, computer store.. Yea, you could be doing other things than sitting home.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Scought

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I dont need to come up with a litany of things to tell a girl when she asks what I do on the weekends.

I believe if you are confident in yourself enough, and you should be. Also, girls are to enhance your life not make it.

Anyway, if you just chill, drink beer, watch sports. Tell her. I mean what the hell. If you are confident in yourself and you know what you are all about than you dont have to make up some grand illusion. You dont have to lie.

You do what you want to do, when you want to.
Each weekend is an adventure.
I am honest to everyone, and they either take it or leave it.

Honestly, its about being confident and self assured. You could tell a woman you shovel poop all day if you say it with confidence and that nothing is wrong with it.

When you say, I go clubbing with buddies but its not my thing. You are just covering your bases in case she didnt like your response.

What do you do on the weekends? Whatevers clever.
 
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