"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There's this girl i REALLY like and she REALLY likes me to and she’s told me this, but she still likes her old boyfriend (even though he treats her like total crap) and she has even told me that she loves me and that i would be much better to and for her, but she just cant get over this guy. and she said she would get over him in a little while, well now it's been about 3 weeks and things were going great, and then last night at my senior prom she was talking to her ex more than she was me and so that made me fell like crap, and so now I don’t know what to do, im thinking I’ll just flat out say do you want him or me and say that i can't wait any longer because I like you so much.
so what the hell should I do?:confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Find some more chicks. It aint rocket science.

Do the same thing to her so she'll see that you're valuable too, right now she's playing you and him, probably telling yall the same thing.

If she sees that you can get other girls, she'll get hella jealous and try and be the only one.
 

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make her think she's losing you minute....after minute... if she keep acting that way...

a few months ago someone gave me this advice...i dont know that man but ive never loved anyone more..hahaha:)
 
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Next time you see her tell her to go tease some other dumb ass or ask her if she would like to accompany you to the nearest bathroom stall for sexual gratification.

The chick is just being a lesbian and she's just teasing you or she really likes to suck her BF's d*ck. Believing what she says is like applying for all those credit card letters you get in the mail everyday, you're just bullsh*tting yourself
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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:moon:
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Dude just kinda put your attention on other things for a day or so and when she tries to talk to you again (she will) just strait up tell her how it is... him or me either way will work
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Next time you see her tell her to go tease some other dumb ass or ask her if she would like to accompany you to the nearest bathroom stall for sexual gratification.

The chick is just being a lesbian and she's just teasing you or she really likes to suck her BF's d*ck. Believing what she says is like applying for all those credit card letters you get in the mail everyday, you're just bullsh*tting yourself
you are my idol haha i am so using that on this ***** in a few days if thinkgs keep progressing how they are.
 

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I have to agree, that was fu**ing hilarious. also, good sn
 
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