What do I do! your advice needed pls

[djinhell]

Ok guys, last night I went out with two of my friends (a guy and a girl, their a couple), and the girl bought her friend who I've met briefly before. ANyways were getting on well, everyones having a laugh, and she suggests we all go around some other bars...(she also suggests me and her share a cab later because we live near'ish each other)

My friend (girl) tells me that the friend likes me/thinks im hot and asked me what I thought of her..but I just played it cool. We all end up having loads of shots and drinks and get wasted and go to a club. In the club I dance with her a tiny bit (im not much of a dancer), I talk with her a little bit, and in the end we get a cab.

This is the part im not happy about. I didn't know what to do. I didn't make a move because I was very conscious of the taxi driver eavesdropping on everything, so I let her go with just "its been good, im sure i'll cya later" (or something similar to that.) Apparently she told my friend she enjoyed the night.

A few extra details:- She broke up with her bf a couple months back. She mentioned him once in the night, but not in a heavy depressing way, and I learnt from this site not to talk about it with her. MAN, the conversation was fun, I felt really comfortable with her, we really clicked, we held hands at one point, she sat on my lap (probably due to us being wasted)....but I really feel I clicked with this girl, I think we were both flirty and I want to see her again, but I dont have her number or anything.

I didn't want to kiss her or anything because it just didn't seem right, both drunk, other people around...I didn't want to cheapen her or me..but I totally want her...not just for sex, We really got on, shes relationship potential I think....

I dont want to come across as lame asking for her number, I know shes on facebook...but im not sure what to do. I am very aware that I need to get into contact with her sooner rather than later..I dont know what to do though...your thoughts on this one would be great

Cheers guys

Dj in Hell

 

[COD]

ASK YOUR FRIEND for her number then call or..............hit her up on the net.

Dont let on you are overly interested, play it cool. Sometimes expandign the sexual tesnion........prolonging the inevitable works inyour favor.

You already know she is interested so you got the power.............dont just give it away to her.

U will be fine, dont over think this.

 

[djinhell]

thanks for the reply COD.

Yeah, in the past I would obsess about it and develop oneitis, but I am keeping more cool with this, which is an improvement for me lol

I think I will ask my friend about it maybe on monday or tuesday. Give it a few days to chill out a bit...or on the otherhand I could just put in a facebook request for the girl right now..urgh, decisions! lol

 

[Kevin Feng]

Hey buddy,

Good stuff and it sounds like you have a great girl on your hands here.

Here's the deal, you're already thinking relationship and you haven't even kissed the girl yet.

If you notice, all the douchy/******* guys always get the girl and they always dump them because they're douchy and they're assholish. My mentor, Asian Playboy always prides himself: "I may be an *******, but I'm fun".

Anyway, you don't need to be an ******* to get this girl, there's no need to become a prick just to score. What you do need to do is be fun and sexy.

You kept hesitating when it came time to kissing this girl. Kissing a girl is NOT that big of a deal, it's only a big deal if you make it a big deal.

Joe D. from season 1 does this really well, he kisses girls and he frames like a fun activity, and he does it in front of everybody. Here's the thing, he does it to pretty much every girl and he does it indiscriminately.

Hope this helps, PM me if you want more details.