"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do girls like in terms of body hair? (Question to the experienced DJ's)

snowdog

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Yea, I see a lot of guys around me who shave their chest and stomach. That sh*t is a little bit gay to me. Sean Connery as James Bond had a jungle on his chest. To me, hair on the chest is a sign of manliness. So for me shaving that off, is out of the question. Same goes for armpits. I just don't care enough to shave that off.

Now, most of us probably like a shaved/trimmed pu$$y. How is this with girls? Do they expect from us to get out the razor with foam? I tried to shave my pubic area once and it looked weird, plus it itched like crazy a few days later...

My question is, have any of you ever had comments about pubic hair?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Huffman

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I have moderate Chest/stomach hair and I'm keeping it. If you shave it, beware of the stubble. It looks and feels horrible.

I shave my armpits. Armpit hair grosses me out for some reason.

I trim neatly down there. One girl told me she prefers cleanly shaven, but - as you mentioned - it looks weird and can be some nasty work. Trimming works well for me. It's not much work and it isn't disgusting either.
 

Teej

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I'm no experienced DJ but I have some relevant experience. I have shaved the junk before and it got a very positive reaction from the girl I was seeing, she did say she "loved it." Only other thing I've shaved on my body were the armpits, but the preferences differ widely between women. Some like hairy guys and some like them hairless. In my experience most of them prefer body hair, but in moderation, i.e. not the Robin Williams deal. Personally I have moderate chest/body hair and I've been told it's just the right amount.
 

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trim it low with your elec. clippers...sometimes shaved esp. on the chest can look really ****in wierd but trimmed low is good its the best of both worlds...i use the lowest setting for lower on my body and more for higher up
 

Night Owl

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Real men don't need to shave it off, but keeping it very short down there ensures that no hairs end up in her mouth spoiling the proceedings.

Chating to various women have found that most don't mind the hair and find it very manly, while others, mainly younger women prefer the smooth baby feel. Although other women think that the smooth totally no body hair is like a female version of pedophile.

But, at the end of the day, if she is really into you she will not mind the hair (unless you are a bit of a King Kong, but she probably had worked that already and will not go near you).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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my ex girlfriend hates body hair on the chest and back. I do trim my airmpit hair cause i don't like it
 
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