"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What car should I get?

BeTheChange

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I live and work in a large metropolitan city so haven't really needed a car since I've been here.

Haven't driven in more than 7 years so wary about getting a car which is too expense. Basically need to treat this purchase as if it was a first car.

Few important facts.

Frequency of use: Once or twice a week.

Where: Driving around town mainly. Occasionally on the motorway for long trips

Passengers: No kids. Occasional partner.

Budget: Under $15,000.

I was thinking something like a used BMW 3 series?

Also given I'm unlikely to get any serious mileage out of it should I opt to lease rather than buy?

Also, as I own a small business it will be recognised as a business expense if that matters at all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zekko

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I just drive a mid sized sedan. I'd rather have a truck but the car is more "sensible" - better on gas and don't need the extra $10,000 for 4 wheel drive.

What a load of horseh!t this thread is. "Don't drive a nice vehicle because girls will think you're a beta provider - women are only turned on by guys who are financially unsuccessful.". What a load of bull.

Then these same guys will tell you to dress well to attract women, which essentially sends the same message.
 

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I know the newer Honda Civics and Nissan Altima sedans are pushing close to 40 MPG on the highway(35ish in the city) on regular fuel.

Might want to check in on either one of those. The Altima has a lot of space by the way and the Civic still feels like a go-kart.
 

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Oops, I meant to post my previous rant in the other car thread "What do you drive?". Never mind.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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