"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What can I tell her?

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nvictor

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Fellas, I need help here.

She's interested but we can't go to next step. The situation:
I'll probably leave in the next two months.

I was about to kiss-close. She leaned back. She told me that
she really care about her future (I told you she's older than
me). She doesn't want a two months relationship.

I left, after telling her something I regret now: "I thought I
have long forgotten this emotion I'm feeling for you".
And I left.

She told me she would call tonight.

What can I tell her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phyzzle

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Doesn't matter: Something tells me she's not gonna call tonight.

You could explain to her that kissing does not = relationship, but I don't think she's interested in either. She likes you as a friend.
 
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