I still havent managed to change my life from this site, I havent even manged to make one single approach. Im basically just like how Viper used to be, except I dont usally sit on the computer and whine about my probelms on forums, I just sit there and whine about them to myself. Then I will be like 'yeah im gonna change all this' but then after a few days I will feel like I cant do it again. Mabey I have Bi-polio or something, I donno. My school doesnt help eithier, most people are either confident good at everything type people or nerds, which means I dont fit in. Its all guys as well, which is really gay. I really have no idea what i can do to fix this, the simplest things seem so hard and I rarley achive anything. I havent been happy about my life since about grade 2 and im in year 9 now. How can I change my mindset? I tried affermations once but they didnt work. Im starting to think mabey I cant be a DJ, mabey I should just give up. Please help me somehow.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
what can I do?
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