DocFaustus
Don Juan
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Hi SS, once again back after quite some time, got over my past problems, went to Spring Break, went crazy mode, fked a girl, kinda lost all the interest I had in pursuing "a girl" since only an extremely amazing person would deserve some an investment, living for that would be a waste, therefore while I still hold obvious interesting in girls there's no tolerance : wasting my time; disrespect; not interesting => byebye.
But what can I improve not the related to people skills, not directed in any way to the desire to attract women, simple improvement for the sake of myself and my future? I thought a thread about what we think are our weak points would be very interesting, maybe we can see some of ourselves in others and aid each other.
The weaknesses/things I dislike about myself (that I can actually change, the others won't be considered):
What about you? What are your weaknesses?
But what can I improve not the related to people skills, not directed in any way to the desire to attract women, simple improvement for the sake of myself and my future? I thought a thread about what we think are our weak points would be very interesting, maybe we can see some of ourselves in others and aid each other.
The weaknesses/things I dislike about myself (that I can actually change, the others won't be considered):
1-Aggressiveness: I sometimes respond to things to quickly and sound aggressive, mostly when I'm annoyed and think the question/remark was stupid as hell or pointless, it can be mean and I don't like to sound mean unless someone actually tried to "attack me". Maybe I can attempt to refrain from any remark without thinking about it, but gotta think about this.
2-Care too much about what others think: After all this time still the same trap, altough a bit disguised, I generally don't give a fk but I sometimes find myself showing off to others or thinking of the way x/y will make john doe think about me (the last thing almost gone but I want to eradicate it completely). Showing off is what I really have to work on. Not sure how to avoided because I don't actually understand I'm doing it until after I do it.
3-Procastinating and lazyness: The usual stuff, finishing Highschool, probably going to go to the college I want to go to, study what I like and I plan not to wait till the end of college to start working (preferably start a business myself) so this really has to be eradicated. I kinda worked on it and when I'm interested in x subject I can focus for some time in it, but still sometimes I just find myself wasting time and I hate it. Other times I just find it too hard or start making excuses to go work on x or read a certain book, I normally have a strong will and when I start working I give 100% but still this has to be perfected, going to start getting up at 5/6AM and going to bed at 10/11 PM.
2-Care too much about what others think: After all this time still the same trap, altough a bit disguised, I generally don't give a fk but I sometimes find myself showing off to others or thinking of the way x/y will make john doe think about me (the last thing almost gone but I want to eradicate it completely). Showing off is what I really have to work on. Not sure how to avoided because I don't actually understand I'm doing it until after I do it.
3-Procastinating and lazyness: The usual stuff, finishing Highschool, probably going to go to the college I want to go to, study what I like and I plan not to wait till the end of college to start working (preferably start a business myself) so this really has to be eradicated. I kinda worked on it and when I'm interested in x subject I can focus for some time in it, but still sometimes I just find myself wasting time and I hate it. Other times I just find it too hard or start making excuses to go work on x or read a certain book, I normally have a strong will and when I start working I give 100% but still this has to be perfected, going to start getting up at 5/6AM and going to bed at 10/11 PM.
What about you? What are your weaknesses?