"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What are you looking for from this site?

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Dannyrt34

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We're all here for one reason, and that's for self improvement, mainly in the area of dealing with women. I want to see exactly where you all are trying to get with women, so what are you looking to get from the skills you aquire from this site?

Are you looking to just get laid?
To become a stud who's dating a new girl every week?
Or are you looking for a girlfriend?

To be honest, I have tried all 3 of the above, and was never completely happy with myself with just getting a quick lay or dating new girls constantly. Throughout the mess of having a new companion every week, I did meet a girl I like. She is now my girlfriend, and now my life feels completely fulfilled. At first, I thought I wanted to become a master PUA. But now, I'm happy to say I'm not single, and that was ultimately what I needed in my life.

So what are you looking for?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bearfan34201

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what you said pretty much. Although I am pretty good with girls I need to get alot better. I look at it like this, when I'm laying in bed thinking about things I might have done or should have done during the day.


I am looking to get laid.. Alot by alot of different girls. This is true. During the whole getting laid phase I will be dating new girls alot and therefore going to alot of parties or whatever.

One of my main goals is going to parties from differnt towns with the girls. I'll meet more women which = more social circle. Which means sooner or later I believe I'll meet a girl I will hit it off with really well.

I mean think about it. Every weekened I get really excited to go out and do alot. You know why? Becuase it's a new night and anything is possible. Thats' why I never stay home on weekeends and am always going out. Because I don't like letting oppurtunities pass me by.

It's really intresting and I could go into detail on how I look at things but I'll stop there
 
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I'm personally a more of a relationship type of person, and actually not into sleeping with girls i'm not totally into.

i came to this site to get rid of the fear that we all once had to approach and talk to women. and to educate myself on relationships and women in general. from where i was to where i am now is almost a 180.

i'm happy where i am.
 
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