"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What are the biggest attraction signs when talking to a women ?
- Thread starter Thechamp
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Opening the legs is a strong positive affirmation. Opening the purse or wallet is a strong positive affirmation. Her going out of her way for you is a strong positive affirmation. Opening the legs usually means other things will open, unless she did it just to get your cash.
Thing is there are woman who don't mind paying for drinks/meals, who arrange meet ups and be texting you they miss you in the middle of the night but still won't let you fvck even when they giving you all these signals. Which is why I'm saying you can't confirm anything until your d!ck is inside her.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Those other positive affirmations are pretty good for any of us here even without the legs opening. Many have the legs open and a vacuum on our money, time and resources.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.