"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What are good how to dance at bars YouTube videos?

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What are good how to dance at bars YouTube videos?

There is an earlier thread below this one about dancing, but the conversation was affirming how important dancing is. I agree with them, but Cyfer's question was missed and it needs to be answered because dancing is important. It really is having an advantage over 95% of the other guys. I'm sure I'm not alone in that a lot of straight, regulars guys aren't naturally interested in dancing because they think it's "gay" or awkward feeling or something. I'm beyond that now and I need to learn.

Every Saturday night when I go out to bars, I think crap, this would easier if I knew how to dance. Girls are bored and are often "dancing with each other." Why do they do this? They seems to laugh and pretend to sing the music and point at each other. I don't understand the appeal, but it matters to them.

Where do you learn how to dance, just to be at least good enough informal, collegesqe bars near yuppie almost areas with a dance area near a DJ? (I don't know how to describe a specific place on the internet). What are some good Youtube video examples of easy "dances" you can do at bars for 20 somethings downtowns? They have to exist out there somewhere, but it'd take forever to find them. From what I see some people do, it shouldn't be that hard, its not like formal centuries-old European dances that people in pickadilly collars and powdered whigs did. If I could learn 1-2 simple dances, and I did them super confidently (esp. when drunk in a dark, loud place filled with people)., that's all it'd take. I could be confident if I knew that what I was doing was decent, real "dancing." Girls are so friggen excited about dancing and it has no appeal to me, other than that it'd help me with them...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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