Ok I'm gonna look into sperrys what color would you recommend? Also for style as far as tops and bottoms go what do you think would look good? The gym is something I've been thinking about I guess for me with the gym i get discouraged bc of how long it takes to build a "hot" body. Like you said with your confidence boost I could use some of that lmao. The haircut man well I'm brown hair and I was thinking a short on the sides with kind of a messy spiky look up top.
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^ That's the pair I own. You can also look into some dark shoes to mix and match. The Sperry's look great with neutral colored t-shirts and dark denim jeans. You have to make sure the clothes fit you well though. The sleeves of a t-shirt should hug your arms nicely and cover half the biceps. When you try on shirts, lift your arms all the way up and make sure your belly doesn't show. If it shows, shirt is too small. Jeans should be slim fit, not baggy, and not too skinny to the point where you feel you can't move around freely. Wear dark colored socks. You can wear white socks but ONLY if they still look like new.
As for the gym, you need to set goals to stay motivated. You want mass? Dedicate one day to each muscle group (legs, chest, back, shoulders, arms). 5 days a week. If you're limited on time, find a 3-day split program on the bodybuilding forums. When you do find a program, always, and I mean, ALWAYS, prioritize form over heavier weights. Get that posture down and hit those muscles hard by using full range of motion without sacrificing form. If you've never worked out before, you'll see great results within the first month.
Haircut sounds good

I keep it short on the sides as well and brush it to the side on top.