"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What about her would make you classify a woman as crazy

soxfan52

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What are some things about a woman that make you say she is crazy as in nutts.

If she has pets and dresses them up
If she has kids by more then one guy
Married more then twice
Is over 40 and still acts like a teen, ie colors her hair pink, hangs out with twenty somethings.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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betheman

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self harms, uses drugs, is emotionally unstable/predictable, has a dodgy history, involved with criminality
 

Lucifero

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When you next her and she all of a sudden claims you Sexually Harassed her/Raped her and everything was clearly consentual (if this happens to you A.D.M.!).
 
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