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Master Don Juan
All in all attitude is most important when it comes to dealing with females. Generally attractivity comes from a mix of traits, some of them more interchangable than others; I have known guys who were physically not attractive, and yet women found them intriguing from their rich strong personality and mix of abilities.Despite of this many young people,especially teenagers, lack the maturity that comes with life experiences to actually become a successful and reliable mate for a member of the opposite sex. Taking this fact avoid any advice offered by females at all cost; women honestly don't know what really attracts them. They consciously feel that men shoud be their equals, emotionally in touch, and a friend; basically that of another female. Quite contrary to what they say theirs actions differ; there probably isn't a single women alive that hasn't had some fantasy of making intercourse with a strong black man or jerkish equivalent.
Reputation has a strong effect upon a man's success with women, but it is really a mixture of circumstances, chance, and sometimes a bit of luck. Women respect men they have an attraction for because they have actually always respected them; in retrospect women can not respect men they have no attraction for because the man gives no reason for them to respect him. If a woman respects a man she finds no attraction for it is either because she is obligated or society demands that she respects him; there is no alternitive, either a girl respects you and is attracted to you or she disrespects, ignores, and/or uses you. It is also entirely possible for a girl who has a husband/boyfriend or doesn't want a relationship to be sexually attracted to a man, and not ever act upon her natural female inclinations; this is mostly a mental decision on her part as sexual attraction is not a choice for a woman inspite the societal demand that a woman should withold her sexual desires lest she face social upheaval against her primal actions.
Probably more complex is the engenderment of respect, however deep a subject this might become, what might seem like respect can not always be respect, and what may not seem like respect can thrive as respect. A man knows that everyone has the right to be respected whether one has earned the right or not and freely gives his respects even when it at times it seems unappropiate to give except in the event that it would be endangering or morally wrong to give that respect. Quit contrary to some insecure notions weakness is never found in showing respect, as a man who is self contained and has full control over his actions will not allow his strength to be used negitivelly against himself or others. A man who respects others never takes advantage of those weaker or less able than he, but rather uses his strength to build another up; he also realizes that many will fail to value him for who he is and that there are really few men equally like him in the world. Furthermore, he understands that many people who have been hurt and act badly really want good things to happen with their lives and are unsure how to receive them; in turn he gives them kindness, sympathy, and understanding.
Lastly, never fall for that "just be yourself " bullox that most people dish out when they have nothing better to say; however good that might sound that awnser in itself is not going to solve a persons problems with life. If I was to arrive at a better awnser I would say "Just be all you can become;" live up to your potential and someday someone you don't expect might just approave of you and your accomplishments.
Reputation has a strong effect upon a man's success with women, but it is really a mixture of circumstances, chance, and sometimes a bit of luck. Women respect men they have an attraction for because they have actually always respected them; in retrospect women can not respect men they have no attraction for because the man gives no reason for them to respect him. If a woman respects a man she finds no attraction for it is either because she is obligated or society demands that she respects him; there is no alternitive, either a girl respects you and is attracted to you or she disrespects, ignores, and/or uses you. It is also entirely possible for a girl who has a husband/boyfriend or doesn't want a relationship to be sexually attracted to a man, and not ever act upon her natural female inclinations; this is mostly a mental decision on her part as sexual attraction is not a choice for a woman inspite the societal demand that a woman should withold her sexual desires lest she face social upheaval against her primal actions.
Probably more complex is the engenderment of respect, however deep a subject this might become, what might seem like respect can not always be respect, and what may not seem like respect can thrive as respect. A man knows that everyone has the right to be respected whether one has earned the right or not and freely gives his respects even when it at times it seems unappropiate to give except in the event that it would be endangering or morally wrong to give that respect. Quit contrary to some insecure notions weakness is never found in showing respect, as a man who is self contained and has full control over his actions will not allow his strength to be used negitivelly against himself or others. A man who respects others never takes advantage of those weaker or less able than he, but rather uses his strength to build another up; he also realizes that many will fail to value him for who he is and that there are really few men equally like him in the world. Furthermore, he understands that many people who have been hurt and act badly really want good things to happen with their lives and are unsure how to receive them; in turn he gives them kindness, sympathy, and understanding.
Lastly, never fall for that "just be yourself " bullox that most people dish out when they have nothing better to say; however good that might sound that awnser in itself is not going to solve a persons problems with life. If I was to arrive at a better awnser I would say "Just be all you can become;" live up to your potential and someday someone you don't expect might just approave of you and your accomplishments.