"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What a f***ing chance I f***ed up!

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I am on study trip (alone:p) to multiple cities in europe and usa. I met this girl in londen in a hotel, we just said hi, how are you and that's it, cause suddenly some 40year old sh*t**s interrupted us trying to CB and steal her by telling nice stories about his music career. End result is: I went for a snack, and she left the guy and said that she needs to go now..

4 weeks later, I meet this same girl in nyc, in the same hotel!! I was like... WTF?? Unfortunately, I had to leave and hurry for a waiting shuttle and couldn't say more then a hi and we met before, which she remembered..

The funny thing, just 9 days later, I met her AGAIN in a hotel in chicago. She opened up, we talked alot, but at the same time I was a little bit uncomfortable due to the fact that we saw each other in 3 different places, itss just crazy!! At the end, she left, told me she will be back. When she was back we talked some more (I told her I am staying for only 2 more nights in this hotel and then going back to nyc, talked about life and stuff) and then she said she is going to sleep and hoped to see me tomorrow.

I was like...Sure, good idea. Next day, I did not see her at all! I basically waited all night in the lounge, but she did not come. Two girls started talking and we ended up talking talking and laughing. I kept an eye on the hotel entrance, and yep... I saw the girl again. I am not sure if she saw me, but she just walked to the elevators and went up.

The day after it, I had to leave and did not see her around anymore.

Right now, I am throwing my head against the wall for screwing this up. She is hottttttttttt, has money/career, education, dependant, a little shy (we need that a little bit) and so hottttttttttttttt again.

Today, I thought about calling the hotel and asking them to leave a message to her (I know her full name) with my name and number or email address.

What do you guys think? Bad move or worth a try?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yuppaz said:
what do you have to lose?
Even if she contacts me, I would feel terrible for making myself look like a *****.:trouble:

I don't think it's a good idea for a beginning adventure..:nono:
 

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Play the 'Destiny' card, man. Chicks eat that shyt up!

Or, c+f her be claiming she's following you around the world, and you are starting to get scared, but restraining orders arent national.

Do the 'fate,' , 'destiny,' soul mate angle, and you might make this happen.
 

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So you're saying that you actually waited around in a hotel lobby looking for her, even though you hadn't arranged a time with her to meet? Sounds kind of stalker-ish.

Why didn't you just get her number and set up a date?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sir Shinra said:
So you're saying that you actually waited around in a hotel lobby looking for her, even though you hadn't arranged a time with her to meet? Sounds kind of stalker-ish.
I waited in the lounge, where people sit and relax, drink or watch tv etc. I hoped to see her there, cause we met the day before in the same place, she hoped to see me again too.

I waited there and met some people. And saw her walking by, but I guess she didn't see me, or saw me and was too shy too disturb us..

Sir Shinra said:
Why didn't you just get her number and set up a date?
I was kind of shocked after seeing her for the 3rd time in a different hotel in a different city/country. Maybe she was stalking me? Or she thinks I am? :rolleyes:

After all these extreme coincidences, the luck ran out and we did not see each other anymore..

I hope she isn't browsing this forum and coincidence comes back...:nervous:
 
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