Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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western society and the dating world is out of control

sylvester the cat

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Mike32ct said:
How old are you Sylvester?

Sometimes these disagreements are due to different experiences due to age.

A 22 yo can say "I make minimum wage, drive a Toyota, and F different bytches every night."

But a 35 yo WILL have to make good money, have hair, a nice car, and well above average looks because he's subject to different (and more strict) requirements.

I'm exaggerating to make a point. No offense to anyone is intended.
No, that's a good point. In my teens and twenties I just had to look at a girl and they'd drop their panties. 30s onwards that all changed hence why I'm here.

Men should not be without game anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The biggest change I'm seeing in modern day American women is how hardcore liberal they've become. It's rare that I find a woman I agree with anything politically on and they will cut you loose fast when they find out you're a "right winger", followed by all sorts of names and insults for being such.lol
 

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We all have to deal with it, but with people like our Founding Fathers and MLK decided to just deal with it?
 

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Originally Posted by latino158
6/10 in your eyes, probably a 4/10 only

people on the internet always ovetestimate their own looks and especially the women they date looks
Nah Latino is right, this quote is the truth
 

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Nah Latino is right, this quote is the truth
It is the truth in your limited world because you can't handle the truth. The truth was they were 9s.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It is the truth in your limited world because you can't handle the truth. The truth was they were 9s.
Sure in your DELUSIONAL world they were. Then again I don't know what "9s" you are talking about.
 

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Why don't you move to a male dominated place? My parents are from Pakistan and all the stuff you said is reverse in my culture. Even the ugliest men get married and sometimes pretty women don't..
 

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princess_124 said:
Why don't you move to a male dominated place? My parents are from Pakistan and all the stuff you said is reverse in my culture. Even the ugliest men get married and sometimes pretty women don't..
First of all not all men like ethnic women (their own men dont in many cases), second as much as women are important, one cant leave in a tribal culture with a cultural gap of millennia and a technological gap of centuries just to make sure his woman is not bothering him...third certain tribal culture tend to be that thing that is forbidden to us "territorial" when it comes of foreigners.
 

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There's always suicide.

Better than wallowing in frustration and unhappiness.
 

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Jaylan said:
There's always suicide.

Better than wallowing in frustration and unhappiness.
Frustration and unhappiness can be overcome.

Killing yourself cannot.

Don't be a fvcking idiot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It really isnt that hard bros, its the age of online dating and unprecendented technology and communication.. If you cant get laid then start working on yourself instead of whining on forums with others about how evil women and society has become. Do you have any idea how childish and weak that attitude is? It is likely the reason you arent getting girls to begin with.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
Frustration and unhappiness can be overcome.

Killing yourself cannot.

Don't be a fvcking idiot.
*kanye shrug*

Survival of the fittest shows itself to be true eventually, so why waste time?

What I was trying to get at before, is that dudes need to stop b!tching so much. Whats the point of living if you are simply always complaining and not doing real things to make life better?
 
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