It was saddening really. Especially seeing how much women in committed relationships cheat, and how easy it is to get them to cheat. And how good they are at it. That was the final bloom off the rose for me. I try not to even make eye contact with my married friends wives, I know how easy it is and they know I know. The worst is when I can see the signs and my buddy has no clue that his wife is bored/disgusted and cheating on him. I can barely stand to watch those scenes play out.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Were you disappointed when you found out what women are really like?
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