"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"We're NOT friends!! hahaha" is this an IOI?

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...yea, like what the title said.

Today I was thinking about this chick I was gaming. One night after a few flirty/playful text msgs to eachother I decide to go to sleep and tell her good night. In response she says "Alright, good night buddy!...wait, we're NOT friends! hahaha". Was this a subtle hint that she's interested in more than being friends?

This was a while ago and it was always in the back of my mind but never gave it much thought.

Im curious as to what you guys think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Honestly.. it sounds like she's trying to make a joke.
 

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lol yeah, sounds like a playful putdown....should have said "wow, sucks for you" or something else C&F
 

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ahh, funny how written words can be interpretted in so many ways...
 

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Maybe you came up with your idea from wishful thinking.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you can't really tell.
from my pov it seems like she's interested.
but the thing with text/e-mails is that you can't show any emotion through them so the receiver often gets the wrong idea.

i wouldn't think too much about it.
 

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splinterkb said:
Maybe you came up with your idea from wishful thinking.
Hey, Ive got to admit that at the time getting at her was the idea so I wouldnt be surprised if that was a factor.

Crazy Asian said:
you can't really tell.
from my pov it seems like she's interested.
but the thing with text/e-mails is that you can't show any emotion through them so the receiver often gets the wrong idea.

i wouldn't think too much about it.
And yes, that was a hard lesson learned right there...
 

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I think analyzing her every sentence is not a good idea. Have enough options and things going on that you never have time to do this. When that happens, she will like you anyway,
 
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