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Went out on Friday night...1st time in ages!

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Well I went out on the town on Friday, it was the first time I'd been out socialising in 3 years!! I had a bit of a result, but just need to run it past you guys for opinions.

I went out with my best friend and after checking out the local pubs we met up with his mates at a nightclub. My best mate is married and his mates are all in long term relationships - their girlfriends were with them too. One of their girlfriends friend (female) was with them and I was informed that she was single...well seeing as all the guys we were with were all in realtionships there was no fear of being c0ckbloked!

So, I got chatting with this girl and to me she was very nice, fit body, large breasts, nice hair, and very sexy glasses :rolleyes: Only downside was that she smoked :( ...nevermind!

As the night went on I got more and more drunk and cannot really recall what I said, however; I do remember us swapping straws and sharing each other's bottles of that WKD blue vodka stuff.

The night ended with me saying goodbye and heading off to my mates house - he informed me that I had pulled but was in danger of fooking it up with my drunkeness...that is why he insisted we left when we did. Fair play to him!!

Fast forward to last night and I get a txt of this girl's friend telling me that her friend liked me and would I meet up with them in town. I replied saying that I was already partying and could not make it - I didn't want to appear too keen to be honest. So this girl said fine and that she would pass on my number to the girl in question...an hour later I get a txt from the girl I was chatting to saying merry xmas, she enjoyed chatting to me, and have a good xmas day and added a kiss! Wow I thought, so I replied back in kind saying the same thing but added that it be great to meet up for a chat sometime soon, merry xmas!

Of course I haven't heard anything back but don't expect to after xmas to be honest. Incidently, my best mate phoned me last nite to inform me that he'd received a txt from his mate who was out with them last night saying this girl wouldn't stop talking about me to them...lol!!!

I'm quite pleased with myself cos' it seems that losing weight, a new wardrobe and good hairstyle is paying dividends...

Thanks for reading, and sorry for the poor grammer!!

Macca
 

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Macca said:
..I'm quite pleased with myself cos' it seems that losing weight, a new wardrobe and good hairstyle is paying dividends...
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You should be. :up: Stop texting with her friend though (if it was really her friend). You should be talking with this girl directly, no intermediaries, no text.
 
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Oops, sorry I didn't make this clear - her friend txt'd me telling me that I had an admirer and would I be interested in meeting up with her and the admirer (the admirer being the girl I was chatting to on Friday) that night. I said that I couldn't make it so the girl said she would pass on my number to the "admirer". So she did this and that same evening the admirer txt'd me wishing happy xmas and saying that she enjoyed chatting to me on friday. I replied back in kind but added that it would me great to meet up with her sometime for a drink...
 
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Should have asked to talk to your admirer directly and then got her number and made a date to meet up after the holidays.
 

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I have got the "admirer's" number as she txt'd me xmas greetings - her friend passed on my number to her...she then txt'd me. :)

I'm sorry if I'm confusing the issue with my poor description/English
 
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I have got the "admirer's" number as she txt'd me xmas greetings - her friend passed on my number to her...she then txt'd me. :)

I'm sorry if I'm confusing the issue with my poor description/English
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Got'cha, good job. :up: Now give her a call with a plan to hook up!
 
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