"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Went out. Now what?

El Suave

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Dude, the advice from people was to CALL her after three days, not text! Learn some patience if you wanna get with this girl and wait till tomorrow evening and then CALL and tell her exactly the place that you want to take her out to. Don't just ask if she wants to go out, have a place in mind. Coffee, theater, icecream, whatever the ****, just have a definite time and place where you want to take her. If she says she can't make it and doesn't offer another time whem she can meet, give her the silent treatment for another week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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