So, I went back to this bar downtown again this weekend. This time, I went much later. It was pretty crowded when I walked in. The only seats left were at the end of the bar. I took a seat and I looked over to see this really cute chick sitting nearby. I ordered my drink and and I looked over again and noticed that she was looking right at me. I mean I directly locked eyes with this chick. Then, she turned to this thug lookin' guy she was with and just started practically makin' out with the guy right there. I'm kinda new to this scene and I didn't quite know what to make of it, so I just didn't give her any attention; but, I'm sure she kept looking over and she kept getting all up on this guy.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Went back to this bar lastnight
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