"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jair213

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sup guys,

previously i worked at a cherry plant

met this chick there, oviously she found me atractive blah blah anyhow..

we talked cool, she would make conversation 90 percent of the time, would work by me all the time..

anyhow i was chatting 3 of her friends, then all of a suddent one of them asks me that who do i like from the girls working there i stayed quiet and laughed it off and she was there too i just looked around and didnt say anything i just responded ''im not telling yall'' and they kept on buggin me about it, then the girl that oviously likes me comes back and i rub her chick/face in a really caressing way, she didnt say anything you could tell she got nervous she spoke a bit with us and walked away while her friends said ''awww''

ppffftt anyhow

after that she wasnt as talkative anymore, she kinda distance her self, as soon i notice that i did the same.. she seems nervous everytime im around like she would give me this awkward vibe... she still says hi and smiles at me though but she wont initiate nothing anymore though..

did i spooked her away? -_-
 

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Dont think about that. Be patient.
 
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Maybe it was too much of a display in front of her friends? Just a thought. To me it sounds like she enjoyed that you two had a secret thing that no one knew about. It was like a secret that you two shared and connected you two. I'd try to play up the secret flirt thing again and see who she reacts. If not, you can catch her alone and ask her out. Just a thought.
 

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Bro she's just a little intimidated of you! Go and initiate a fun easygoing conversation and just take it from there. Don't let the paint dry my man.
 
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