Weird issue need advice

[Machine10033]

Ok... about 8 months ago I thwarted an attempted branch swing. Serious lapse in judgement and a mistake I will never make. She was married and I’m living with my ltr we never got physical but had i not been so cautious we easily could have. She used the L word and I sent a farewell message saying hey let’s just be friends. I think she conveniently let her husband find the messages and they had a blow up. He tried counseling but she filed for divorce. She just messaged me saying hey I am looking at houses and I really like one right down the street from you. How the hell should I respond to that? I want to say your a complete lunatic and it’s creepy you would consider that ?

 

[AJ84]

Ok... about 8 months ago I thwarted an attempted branch swing. Serious lapse in judgement and a mistake I will never make. She was married and I’m living with my ltr we never got physical but had i not been so cautious we easily could have. She used the L word and I sent a farewell message saying hey let’s just be friends. I think she conveniently let her husband find the messages and they had a blow up. He tried counseling but she filed for divorce. She just messaged me saying hey I am looking at houses and I really like one right down the street from you. How the hell should I respond to that? I want to say your a complete lunatic and it’s creepy you would consider that ?

The farewell msg you sent should not have included ‘hey let’s just be friends’. You kept the door opened, close it by not responding to her text.