"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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last year i had this thing for the chick but she had a bf at the time and she was an AW. only 1 of my friends knew and told her without tellin me for like a week....of course i was pissed cuz he ruined everything and it was awkward after that. couple weeks later she told she wants to get to know me better (REJECTION) but still found attractive.....ya ok. but w/e. i didnt talk to her all summer and now schools around and shes been talkin to me every day for the past 2 weeks, irl and online. shes been flirtin mad and wants to go to the bruins game with me on friday i got an extra ticket (it'd be with me , another guy that shes jus friends with, and her) im thinkin if i let her go it'd be a good oppurtunity but idk im jus stuck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How bout you and some friends go to the game and get some girls??
 
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BECAUSE I DONT FEEL LIKE GETTING NUMBERS OF GIRLS 2 HOURS AWAY FFROM ME
 
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