"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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weekend stories

JayCamx23

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thought it would be cool to have a thread where we tell stories from our weekends. so heres mine

Friday night: party at my friends house in the woods. there werent too many girls there but we had a bonfire in the middle of the woods. it was great cuz it was so f'in cold out. i was messed up from smokin and drinkin so i dont remember much. theres this slutty HB8 i know and she just came over and sat on my lap and started talking. this is according to my friend cuz i was blasted. if i was f'in sober i would of had her im so pissed. knowing her im not surprised if she hooked up with someone...should of been me. lesson learned: stay sober when your around girls.

Saturday: went to some HB9's sweet 16. Not too many people were there. She introduced me to 4 of her friends from the town over and they were hot. so i went over to talk to them for a minute or 2 and headed back with my friends. just small talk. so an hour later when they were outside i got one of there numbers. basically just invited them to a make believe party next friday and told her to give me her number. got it and told her i might call you. okay, now im basically still a rookie at this DJ stuff and had never made an approach to a girl that i didnt know before, so, for you guys who just CAN'T approach a girl...i got news for you. JUST DO IT!!! its really not that bad. u have to. these girls were f'in hot and i had to kill myself to get up and talk to them. its really not that bad. and despite your beliefs, girls are very open to approaches. believe me, i didnt do a great job when talkin to them the first time or when getting the number, but u know what...i still got it. well, maybe i did better than i thought:D and you know what, never again will i be that afraid to approach a girl or a group of girls. its a great feeling.

okay i still got a few questions for the experienced out there. this is my first ever approach to an unknown girl, so now what? i got the number and i know i should wait a few days to call. so what day should i? and what should i say? i kinda want her to go to the campfire since the kid has it every friday. but if i go there im prolly gonna smoke or drink and i know every guy would hit on her. maybe i should just tell her that im busy on friday and go by myself. hope someone can help me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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immrtlwun

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This is basically a field report. There's already an FR thread stickied at the top.
 

Taviii

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Friday

After a day in which all my friends kept asking me if I would go to the disco I finaly decide to go!

Bad atmosphere there, not a lot of people so I decide to drink something!

I start dancing on the dancefloor and see this chick cheking me out again (she did it before but I had something better to do then :D ). I walk over to her and say hi. We introduce ourselfs, I ask her howshes feeling and if she wants to dance!

After 5 minutes of dancing I say that Im going to buy myself another beer and walk away! She just fuking stud arround the zone were I was the whole time! We dance again some half hour later and we kiss during a song! We go to her table and make out! I ask for her number and we make out again!

The rest of the night continued in the same way :making out and dancing!

To bad thats all that happened :(

Well considering that I just wanted to stay home it was a pretty good night.


Saturday

I had to go the countryside to help my grandparents so I got home at about 6 very tired! I chatted to a girl that kept isisting that I am playa! (we were a couple at a disco some 2 months ago)

Sunday

The girl with which I chatted saturday asks me about a new restaurant in my town, and I tell her that well go there togheter some time! After that she keeps insisting that we go there today! I refuse!

Its 6 pm now! I doubt something interesting will happen today though cause I hate winter and its fuking frezing outside!
 
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