"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Weekend Sarging

Toushi

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Well... I'm a rAFC and, luckly, friend of mine invited me to stay at his home during the whole weekend. In a few hours, I'm leaving to his place. He lives very near the clubs, so every single night we'll be out there. :cool:

It'll be pretty fvcked up at first. Everyone wants to put me 100% drunk, and some of them are already telling me about smoking weed. :rolleyes: I'm not into the weed stuff, so I'll just plain refuse. I do not pretend to get drunk either, although I plan to drink.

Another bad thing is that my friend's mother is *MAD*. She's always teasing everyone that is at her house... And she's *always* yelling and shouting. Pretty bad... I've already stayed at his house months ago, and it wasn't nice.

The last bad thing is that all the guys we will be with are AFC's. Meh... I won't be able to expect any help from them. It'll be a lonely weekend sarging.

But there's a good thing. The guy is paying all my expenses... Drinks/entrances in clubs/everything... :up:

So, any tips for the weekend?

Wish me luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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