"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wedding Crashers was a satire of our community.

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Wedding Crashers had an underlying satirical aspect and it might just be about the seduction community.

They had "rules" of the game.

They had this mysterious legendary pioneer that they worshipped (like we do).

Owen Wilson's character goes through a realization that many of us here go through --- whether we want to be "that guy" who's an incredible PUA but that's his entire life and goes too far (Will Ferrel)... or if we want to just better ourselves.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You seem to be real worried about the safety and security of our community. I don't think they even know it exists, they just know cool guys when they see them. Isn't that what we're all trying to be?
 

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I f your not using canned material, who cares if our lil club is discovered by the masses??? The game being exposed doesnt harm me in anyway.....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by naoi deag se deag
You seem to be real worried about the safety and security of our community. I don't think they even know it exists, they just know cool guys when they see them. Isn't that what we're all trying to be?
No I don't care, I'm not saying this part of the movie is bad, in fact this is my favorite movie of the summer and it was incredible watching it and seeing the parallels.
 

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The two greatest comedies of this year, except for The Aristocrats perhaps, have been Wedding Crashers and The 40 Year Virgin. Both films took decidedly anti-player stances after initially seeming to be pro-player. We could say that in terms of story development, the pivotal scene in Wedding Crashers was Vince Vaughn shackled to a bed while that red headed vixen had her way with him. Up to that point in the film, Vince Vaughn was controlled by the ladies. His being raped was to be a metaphorical wake-up call to women’s domination over him and subsequently he began asserting more control over his desires. I, of course, am leaving out the best part about the shackled bedroom scene but that omission is for the people who have not yet seen the film. :woo:
 
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