"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Web Browser BS

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Anyone else getting fed up with all of the hoopla' with web browsers?

In the scope of what I do I use Mac, Windows 7, Android, Linux, and Windows 8.1 once in a while. Lately, I have found both Google Chrome and Firefox to completely suck on all said platforms other than Linux. Both browsers have slowed down Windows, Mac, and Android. I switched to Safari on the Mac and after many years of not touching IE because of security issues, I finally started using it again because it was the only PC browser I could find that didn't make my system puke on itself. Now Microsoft is doing away with IE. WTF? Anyone know why? (assuming Microsoft uses logic, I can't say they do). It's getting old. They keep always wanting to add more sh|t, when they could be spending time making what they had better. Arg!!:cuss:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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They're not "doing away" with it. Windows 10 will feature a new browser called, for now, Project Spartan (a reference to the game Halo if you're not familiar). The reason they're working on a new browser is because web developers hate developing for IE, so websites don't always render correctly, users hate IE, etc. The negative stigma around IE (even though since IE9, it's become a decent browser) won't go away. Everyone hates IE no matter how much better it has become. So, Microsoft is solving this by forking the Trident engine, supporting more web standards, making the browser faster, adding new features, etc. They're doing everything they can to get users to use it and developers to stop detecting user-agents and start detecting feature support, which is usually why websites render incorrectly on IE.

Anyway, IE11 will still be available on Windows 10, 8.1, and 7. They won't be any more updates to IE from now on though.
 

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Firefox sucks on ALL platforms, including Linux. It's a huge resource pig. I've been using Chrome pretty much all across the board. I used to use Opera, but development came screeching to a halt for a bit and then some webpages (especially Facebook) didn't work reliably on it. It seems that Opera hasn't yet recovered, so I'm not using it anymore.

Chrome loads in two seconds flat on Linux. It chugs away for a good 10-30 seconds in Windows. Whenever I'm forced to use a Windows computer, I feel like I'm suffering with a broken leg.
 

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Desdinova said:
Firefox sucks on ALL platforms, including Linux. It's a huge resource pig. I've been using Chrome pretty much all across the board. I used to use Opera, but development came screeching to a halt for a bit and then some webpages (especially Facebook) didn't work reliably on it. It seems that Opera hasn't yet recovered, so I'm not using it anymore.

Chrome loads in two seconds flat on Linux. It chugs away for a good 10-30 seconds in Windows. Whenever I'm forced to use a Windows computer, I feel like I'm suffering with a broken leg.
To be fair, Chrome is a resource hog as well. Haven't used it on Linux as of yet though. Though, it is the main browser I use. Can't remember why I stopped using Opera. And yeah, Chrome does take about 10 seconds or more to start up, even on a SSD.
 

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Doesn't use up much on mine. I've got only 4G of RAM installed:

Code:
%CPU %MEM     TIME+ COMMAND     
17.9  2.2   2297:26 Xorg        
10.6  4.8   2221:39 compiz      
3.6   2.0   0:02.81 chromium-b+ 
3.0   0.2 167:25.78 pulseaudio  
3.0   4.3   0:45.02 chromium-b+ 
2.0   4.8 592:20.11 clementine  
1.3   0.5   0:01.03 gnome-term+ 
1.0   8.1  41:26.03 kdenlive    
0.7   1.0   0:06.90 chromium-b+ 
0.3   0.0  33:50.06 rcu_sched   
0.3   0.0  28:21.43 rcuos/0     
0.3   0.3 128:13.66 bitstormli+ 
0.3   0.4  66:58.88 bitstormli+ 
0.3   3.9   0:12.07 chromium-b+ 
0.3   0.0   0:00.05 top         
0.3   0.0   3:04.02 kworker/2:2 
0.3   0.0   0:51.36 kworker/1:0
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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