"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wearing Glasses a...disadvantage?

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Are glasses generally a turnoff for women? i honestly dnt know if i should get contacts because i always hear that they dry out your eyes, but idk if glasses are considered attractive. does anyone have a story on how they been treated by women when sporting specs compared to contacts :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wear both.

If you are wearing ****ty glasses yes. Get some designer frames. I look better with glasses, especially when I have a suit on IMHO.. when I am getting really spiffy I throw them on definitely. The misses loves them
 

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I have definitely gotten more attention wearing contacts than glasses. But then I have blue eyes which alot of people love. You can't see them as well with glasses.

However I rarely, if ever, wear contacts. I have never gotten used to them. They burn and I'm blinking constantly. Plus I don't really like touching my eyeball.

Glasses may hurt with some women but the vast majority won't care. Especially if they are stylish, fit your face well, and worn with a mature outfit.
 
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I've been wearing contacts since I was 13 years old. After the initial, inevitable learning curve, there isn't anything to it. You put them in and you forget you're wearing them. I spend a little over $200 a year on contacts and I think they're completely worth it. Not to mention, I can still wear glasses when I feel like mixing it up.

By the way, I wear Acuvue 2, the thinnest contact on the market - that is definitely a factor. There are a lot of sh1tty contact lenses out there.
 

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backbreaker said:
I wear both.

If you are wearing ****ty glasses yes. Get some designer frames. I look better with glasses, especially when I have a suit on IMHO.. when I am getting really spiffy I throw them on definitely. The misses loves them
totally agree with him

but sure it depend on your fashion

personally i never had contact and i'm cool with it cause i prefer glasses
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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first, if you have a fat face, glasses won't look as good. go contacts.

If you have been working out though, or just have a squarish face in general, glasses can really enhance your look

I own 4 pair of glasses, and 2 pair of sun glasses. This is what I wore when I went out a few nights ago

http://www.viziooptic.com/designer-eyeglasses/Mykita-Bjorn-c.-05-Eyeglasses-15333.aspx

here are another pair I have when I want to get really flashy

http://www.versace.com/uploads/b03af12c5ec2c94f735962c3bbda7d5b7129e3e5.jpg

I have a thicker pair of black rims as well and I have a rimless pair as well.

glasses are like shoes. they can **** up an outfit or they can really put the outfit over the top
 

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I wear glasses myself. In general, glasses are a negative, because they show weakness, like thin hair. There's no way around that fact. It is always better for your appearance not to wear glasses than to wear them.

When you do wear glasses, get some that are discreet. They shouldn't have sharp corners or be round, they should have thin frames and kind of follow your eye socket. Slightly square-shaped with round corners is best.

Discreet, but don't get glasses that have no frame at all on the top and bottom. Those just draw attention to themselves too.

I know many people who wear lenses, and they say you get used to them after the first painful weeks.

Best way to make glasses look good: work out. When you are slim and athletic, practically anything else will be forgiven. Just like you will be okay with a girl wearing glasses when she is pretty and has firm breasts.
 
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