"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Weak moment: Should I contact her?

TheGambino

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Old oneitis chick, HB9, works at a bank, has a modelling carreer and is a online blogger.

My type of girl. She drove me on this forum years ago. She came back in my life with more drama to be honest. Two weeks ago we had a bday party, she suggested to sit on the couch and chill but I drove her out to party (mistake). Ended up with the 2 DJ bad boy guys with her and her friend and became third wheel. We did make out on the bed, kino'ing and almost having cex but they send her friend to push her out of the bed and she went to sit on my buddies lap.

I put her off her pedestal that night, telling her that dissappointed me by using drugs, I said: ''My gf or mother of children using drugs, that's a NO NO.''

She started to say: I knew it like 20 times.

I said you won't see me again after this night. She started to act really sad and saying why why why?

She was drunk and drugged.


We made out heavily, being dominant as fvck, pushing her b00ty and she l0ved it making all h0rney sounds.

She asked me about a certain girl I dated at the time (a HB9 too thats a psychologist, she saw it on snapchat)

Anyway, like I said her friend came in and pulled her out of my bed.

Became whining and needy and left.

Then, I meet her at a party, she sees my social status, partying with high status guys (in her perception) Everyone greeting me and seeing me dancing and kissing girls.

Started to follow me there and trying to get attention. Ignored them but smirked once a while, she flirted back.

Last week new party: She sees me grinding a girl and partying, having fun and making out. Started to touch me and pushing her ass too mine, following me around at the party. Again: Ignored them but smirked once a while, they flirted back heavily.

Im deciding..... I deleted her from snapchat and facebook weeks ago. It's probably stupid to reach out to her or her friend right?

I would like to get a drink with her, have fun, escalate and fvck her. That's all it is.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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highSpeed

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Well you have your answer then, f*ck her and enjoy nutting on her face. Then ignore her. That way, you get satisfaction from getting to bang her and you get satisfaction using her screwed up emotional needs against her. Ignoring her will be the cherry on top. You win!
 

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Dude, the amount of time you write about her.. invalidate everything you write here


If you have options, how come all your threads lead to her? If you live à DJ life, why you stay stuck on 1 girl who reject you? She kissed you? Well she also ditched you when another guy called her?

I think you inventing all your reports.. no succesful guy would waste time on uninterested people
 

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She blowed me off saying shes going out with her 2 friends with no counter offer
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Masculinity

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Old oneitis chick, HB9, works at a bank, has a modelling carreer and is a online blogger.

My type of girl. She drove me on this forum years ago. She came back in my life with more drama to be honest. Two weeks ago we had a bday party, she suggested to sit on the couch and chill but I drove her out to party (mistake). Ended up with the 2 DJ bad boy guys with her and her friend and became third wheel. We did make out on the bed, kino'ing and almost having cex but they send her friend to push her out of the bed and she went to sit on my buddies lap.

I put her off her pedestal that night, telling her that dissappointed me by using drugs, I said: ''My gf or mother of children using drugs, that's a NO NO.''

She started to say: I knew it like 20 times.

I said you won't see me again after this night. She started to act really sad and saying why why why?

She was drunk and drugged.


We made out heavily, being dominant as fvck, pushing her b00ty and she l0ved it making all h0rney sounds.

She asked me about a certain girl I dated at the time (a HB9 too thats a psychologist, she saw it on snapchat)

Anyway, like I said her friend came in and pulled her out of my bed.

Became whining and needy and left.

Then, I meet her at a party, she sees my social status, partying with high status guys (in her perception) Everyone greeting me and seeing me dancing and kissing girls.

Started to follow me there and trying to get attention. Ignored them but smirked once a while, she flirted back.

Last week new party: She sees me grinding a girl and partying, having fun and making out. Started to touch me and pushing her ass too mine, following me around at the party. Again: Ignored them but smirked once a while, they flirted back heavily.

Im deciding..... I deleted her from snapchat and facebook weeks ago. It's probably stupid to reach out to her or her friend right?

I would like to get a drink with her, have fun, escalate and fvck her. That's all it is.
Don't be captain save-a-ho. Ditch this girl and move forward. You can bang her, but I'd know there's no future with her. Also, I can't see how old you are. But depending on the age of these girls, talking about being a mother or having children can have a negative impact on your game.
 
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Don't be captain save-a-ho. Ditch this girl and move forward. You can bang her, but I'd know there's no future with her. Also, I can't see how old you are. But depending on the ge of these girls, talking about being a mother or having children can have a negative impact on your game.
I was drunk af I normally dont say that sheit. I want to choke fvck her, cvm on her face then go ghost. But I am on next her now.
 

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I was drunk af I normally dont say that sheit. I want to choke fvck her, cvm on her face then go ghost. But I am on next her now.
That's the spirit. Just wrap your wiener with good condoms. You don't any surprises from a crazy girl. I recommend Magnums by Trojan.
 

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I was drunk af I normally dont say that sheit. I want to choke fvck her, cvm on her face then go ghost. But I am on next her now.
You want another hit of that drug mate.
Because let's say this happens, she has sex with you, you blow a load, then what?
You think you will be able to let her go?
Or will you be blowing up her phone the next day for another hit of that oneitis drug?

You know this chick is going to be trouble for you, she's a party slut and has you by the emotional balls and she knows it.
 
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