"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"we could never date"

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i pulled this line online tonight on a girl who i know likes me, she just got really indifferent and pissed and acted like she didnt care or anything,, did i use it wrong- she started fightin over somethi nstupid and i said that
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You ****blocked yourself. Who cares about the "dating" frame, that comes AFTER you've **** her, if you feel she's worth it. A total momentum killer.

You should've said something like "Behave yourself, or you'll get a time out", or "don't use that tone with me young lady, choose another one." Anything that basically says lighten up.
 
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She thought you were dead serious. You wounded her pride, so she responded with feigned indifference. There was nothing wrong with your line, I've used it myself. But your delivery should have been playful.
 
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