"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We all lie, cheat, and steal... is that a bad thing?

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I'm sure most of you guys conciously try NOT to do anything bad.

Most girls think that makes you a nice guy. You can be everything, but as soon as the oportunity to take something without paying for it arises, you 'pvssy out' and you try to make it sound as though it is against your principles.

How can I argue against stealing?
How can I argue against lieing?
How can I argue against cheating?

So many of my friends do it, I don't have a choice as to who I am introduced to, and who chooses to sit at my table, because a friend of a friend is my friend as well. How can I get them to NOT do anything in my presence?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol, most laugh. Assuming that I am part of the group, and that I know what is going on.

I can't make somebody stop doing something, if they don't want to stop. Just like I can't make somebody change, if they don't want to change.

Usually I just get up and walk away. I don't want to call the cops for every little thing that happens around me in my life, if I do, I will be remembered as a rat.
 
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