"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don Juan
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So I've been a keyboard jockey for years and decided it was finally time to get off my ass and do some approaching. At the moment I am a massive chode in terms of chicks. For at least the next 30 days I am going to be spending 3 hours+ in the field and reporting my progress. Also I can only jerk off once a week maximum for the next 30 days :(. lol. I am starting from way behind your average guy so this is going to be really tough. Anyway going to set some small goals for myself each day.

Goals for the day:

  • 8 Hi's
  • 5 small talks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WBAFC

Don Juan
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Day 1
Just realized how much work I need to do. The first goal I needed to say Hi to 8 people. I managed this but it took me ages as I was just picking me spots and saying Hi to guys that would give me EC. It just seems pretty weird saying Hi to people who are in there own little world looking at the ground while they are walking along the street. Also I noticed that I don't project my voice loud enough, so people aren't sure I'm talking to them.

The second goal of talking to five people I sort of cheated on because I went to play some poker and ended up just talking to other players at the table and the dealers. I will defiently have to do this one again properly. But it's going to be really hard because I was too ***** to do it while I was walking down the street.

Day 2

OK I got really **** exam results so I didn't feel like doing anything. So went out to a club with a friend. Got there really late (like 1am). Anyway went to buy a JD and coke from the bar and there was this older skanky chick I noticed staring at me. I look down and give her EC while grinning until she looks away, it takes like 20 seconds. Anyway she starts feeling my nipple while we are waiting for drinks. I am like this is ****ing weird. Anyway I am looking over the counter too see what the barman is doing and I feel this massive surge of pain in my nipple and look down to see the ***** biting it. It wasn't even like a peck or anything I seriously think she was trying to rip the thing off.

Me: Argh. WHAT THE ****? YOU ARE NASTY.
Her: Oh I guess you are too young to know what real sex is like (something along those lines)
Me: Ha. Maybe.
Her: How old are you?
Me: 22. And you?
Her: 30
*She starts feeling my **** through my pants*
Her: But I think you enjoyed it.

Anyway she leaves the bar and I order my drink and go back to my friend and tell him the story. There is a girl standing over with her friends waving at us who just happens to be the girl who bit my nipple. He decides to call her over. I am thinking ****ing great.

Friend: If a girl came over and started biting you nipple that would be a good thing wouldn't it?
Her: Oh, that would be great.
*Then she winks at me and walks off*

Anyway we go off to the dance floor. She comes over and starts dancing with me. I am sort of embarrassed at this point, I would probably **** this chick but don't really want my friend know. She is being a total tease like coming up and grinding and then pushing me a way. This point I am like **** this I need a break and want to get my friend away from the club. So we leave to another nearby club.

As soon as we get to the other club I run into another friend of mine and am telling him the story as we go to the bar. As soon as I get to the bar I see the only chick I've ever made out with and her friend standing there. I smile and ask her how she is going?

Her: Hey I know you from somewhere?
*She is smiling big time and giving me huge IOIs*
Me: Yeah Kate we met at X club a while ago.
*I made a point to say her name because I kept on forgetting it last time*
Her: Well hopefully I will see you around later tonight.
*She gives me a kiss on the cheek and runs her hand across me as she is leaving.*

I am thinking. Yes I am going to lose my v-card tonight. SWEET. My friend was watching and he is like whoa is that the chick you were talking about. And I am like lol no. He is impressed. Anyway I decide I will take my shot with the kinky chick first and if that doesn't work I will go for HBMakeout.

I go back to the last chick. She isn't there. So come back to the club to meet HBMakeOut. I see her and another girl fighting for some dude who is dancing with both of them. So I go and grab her arm and she is pretending like she doesn't notice. I am like WTF and go back to my friends. I see her again later on when she walked past me, she gave me a smile but it was like a please don't ****ing do anything smile not like a dirty smile that she was giving earlier on.

I am not sure where I ****ed up here. But am thinking these are the possibilities. 1. She talked with her friend about me and discussed how much of a chode I was last time I made out with her. 2. I took to long to go and try pick her up (1hr). 3. She was just interested in the other guy. Anyway I spend the rest of the night dancing with my friends like a massive AFC.

After last night I realize how much work I need to put in my game. I had two chicks completely interested and I couldn't even close. WTF. Also I used no game. I will have to improve because I can't rely on my looks like my friends.
 
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