"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hi, this is a really short version of the story, iv made a playful bet with this girl i like, it doesnt matter wat its about, but she asked me what should she get if she wins and i said i dont know. Then she said it has to be 'something only you can give me' and she wants me to message her what it is.

Whats something sweet i can say because i think she is sort of testing me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hmm... I think shes testing you to see if you are just like all the other guys shes meet or that might be the most obvious come on I've ever seen
 
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ok heres what im thinking about saying:
if you win then you get to go out on a proper date with me filled with hugs and kisses but if i win then we can stay friends forever

it puts a bit of a spin on it but i dont know what will happen if i win haha.
 
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If i win, you give me the best sex ive ever had

if you win, you get to give me the best sex ive ever had
 
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i already mentioned sex but only joking around haha and she said she could get that without winning any sorts of bet anyway
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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