"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wat to do about the men b*tch

mtllcanpssy

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So theres this girl at my school she does look good but heres the thing, she treats me like ****. No it was never like that between us (kino or watever else) Ok in PE some people will make fun of me racially by calling me a mexican but i kinda called for it cus i just did it as a joke n now it just seems people r taking it to far. In volleyball this other kid thats annoying n most people dont like, hit it like a P*ssy n everyone made fun of him n then i said that he sucked. N then that girl said, u think he sucks? N she justs cut down on me alot. I obviously cant get in a fight with her n dont i want to get in one with nybody else (like the people that cut me down) but everyday i feel like im being pulled into making it happen someday. I have been in two fights, first one was my first one so there wasnt really one. But the second one i won so i do have some experience n know the mentality of it. Sorry for making this long but basically, What would be your advice to make this girl stop being such a b**ch or what should i do about all the people picking on me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Raven125

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Don't take her ****. When she said, "you think he sucks." I would have replied with, "Yes, but not as much as you."

Just dont take crap. It's as simple as it sounds
 

mtllcanpssy

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thanks for the tip raven. but its funny to me u say that cus she was on the vball, but i see what ur saying tho. How do i stop taking crap when a lot of people gang up against me or a lot r against me like that?
thanks
 
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