SmackinIsaiah
Don Juan
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Little story here looking for feedback, as I'm completely lost right now, and not quite sure how to handle the situation.
Talked to the ex-gf Monday after something happened to her, so I phoned her the next day to see how she was doing, she was fine, and we talked on the phone for a good half hour before I asked what she was doing tonight, she replied nothing. Keep in mind we've went through a whole load over the past three months (I apparently "net cheated" on her + she'd had a rough few months in her life).
Anyways, we meet up in her area and walk around for awhile, she still has a little pentup animosity towards me, but is still receptive and chipper, also talking about whats going on in her life now etc.
So we sit down by a pond in the grass, and the next thing I know we're talking about us. She says "she doesn't think she can learn to trust me again, but her feelings just haven't went away, and she still thinks about us a lot, and that her head is saying two things, one being to just get up and go, the other side saying 'Kiss him'. I reply I'm feeling the same as her. The next thing that happens, she goes and kisses me and we're making out for awhile, she straddles me but I refuse to go down, telling her if this doesn't feel right to her, then stop, and I'll go . She doesn't, but I still stick to my guns a bit and don't completely give in to her lips and hips. At one point, I told her I loved her still (dumb), and she grabbed me and kisses me even more passionately.
Anyways, long story short, we sit in the grass for another hour laughing, joking, in one case she's crying and holding me tight. Then we get up hand in hand to drop her off at her house, and she asks, "Now what?" I reply "I want to see you again, but if you really think this won't work, tell me now and I'll go." I then asked if I could see her Friday, she said "lets not make plans yet". She says she needs a couple days to think about everything and she kisses me a few more times goodnight before she heads in this was last Tuesday night, I've seen her on msn but she has been kind of cold when she has attempted to make conversation, saying she's still thinking about everything. I want more then anything to get back together with her, and have pretty bad "one-itis" with this girland the ball's completely in her court right now. This happened a few months ago, and we almost got back together, but it was definetly too early. I repeated to her I didn't want that to happen again, so if she thought it would, I would just leave, yet she didn't give me a concrete answer and kissed me again. I want her back badly, but there's no way I'm going to get played again and let it happen.
Keep in mind, she's a girl that loves the hard to get games, that's how I got her in the first place, I played it off like I didn't notice or care. She's like a ****ing faucet.
What's a DonJuan do?
Talked to the ex-gf Monday after something happened to her, so I phoned her the next day to see how she was doing, she was fine, and we talked on the phone for a good half hour before I asked what she was doing tonight, she replied nothing. Keep in mind we've went through a whole load over the past three months (I apparently "net cheated" on her + she'd had a rough few months in her life).
Anyways, we meet up in her area and walk around for awhile, she still has a little pentup animosity towards me, but is still receptive and chipper, also talking about whats going on in her life now etc.
So we sit down by a pond in the grass, and the next thing I know we're talking about us. She says "she doesn't think she can learn to trust me again, but her feelings just haven't went away, and she still thinks about us a lot, and that her head is saying two things, one being to just get up and go, the other side saying 'Kiss him'. I reply I'm feeling the same as her. The next thing that happens, she goes and kisses me and we're making out for awhile, she straddles me but I refuse to go down, telling her if this doesn't feel right to her, then stop, and I'll go . She doesn't, but I still stick to my guns a bit and don't completely give in to her lips and hips. At one point, I told her I loved her still (dumb), and she grabbed me and kisses me even more passionately.
Anyways, long story short, we sit in the grass for another hour laughing, joking, in one case she's crying and holding me tight. Then we get up hand in hand to drop her off at her house, and she asks, "Now what?" I reply "I want to see you again, but if you really think this won't work, tell me now and I'll go." I then asked if I could see her Friday, she said "lets not make plans yet". She says she needs a couple days to think about everything and she kisses me a few more times goodnight before she heads in this was last Tuesday night, I've seen her on msn but she has been kind of cold when she has attempted to make conversation, saying she's still thinking about everything. I want more then anything to get back together with her, and have pretty bad "one-itis" with this girland the ball's completely in her court right now. This happened a few months ago, and we almost got back together, but it was definetly too early. I repeated to her I didn't want that to happen again, so if she thought it would, I would just leave, yet she didn't give me a concrete answer and kissed me again. I want her back badly, but there's no way I'm going to get played again and let it happen.
Keep in mind, she's a girl that loves the hard to get games, that's how I got her in the first place, I played it off like I didn't notice or care. She's like a ****ing faucet.
What's a DonJuan do?