"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was this one of you guys?

Deep Dish

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jacob said:
You see what he was doing was using the power of suggestion when he hinted that they had potential, that she was "attracted" to him by playing with her hair, eye contact etc. and he also tried coming off as a "jerk" by being assertive in the tone of his writing style but at the same time gave her validation.
I've tried that before. It doesn't seem to work. The more you say, the bigger a grave you dig for yourself, and saying nothing is better than saying anything at all.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Any SS man worth his salt would not have sent all those texts and emails, and he would most certainly not have sent that frickin' psychology graduate thesis.

This was a guy who googled "how to get chicks" but never took it any deeper than that.
 

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That paper woulda been an A+ Physchology paper for sure.
 
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